Look for good in everything

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Good Morning/Evening everyone ! Today’s Quote ..

“Train your mind and heart to see the good in everything. There is always something to be grateful for.” 
— Unknown Author

Finding the positive qualities in other people is an important part of your personal development. As you get better at finding the positive aspects of other people, you become more proficient at finding the positive aspects of yourself. 

I’ve  learnt to remind myself that I don’t know the other persons full story. I recently came across the saying “Don’t judge my story based on the chapter you happened to walk in on.” Even when you know someone well, you can’t assume to know what’s going on in their head or heart or life – at any given point in time.

I also find that if I am bothered by someone’s behavior, realizing that it’s probably not directed at me, but rather an expression of how they’re feeling at that point of time, helps me to see the situation from a more objective standpoint.

Seeing the good in other people is a challenging pursuit.Basic social skills like smiling and maintaining eye contact will help.Start noticing only positive intentions underlying peoples’ actions and forgive them for these actions.

When you look for the beauty in every person and situation, life becomes so much better. When you can see the good in everything, you will be genuinely happy and enjoy life so much more

How do you look for good in others ? Let’s get the conversation going in the comment section.

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Hustle

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Ridiculously awesome  things come to those who hustle.

I love this quote from Muhammad Ali

“Never Lose Sight Of The Goal. Always Remember Why You Hustle”

Don’t just dream for it Instead hustle for it . If you want to be successful in your future don’t hesitate to hustle now. Keep on hustling because there is no shortcuts.

Do you know ?! It’s easy to stand with the crowd but difficult to shine apart . Be a hustler who  learns from his mistakes and tries to improve every single day.

Hustle in the silence . Let your success makes the noise .

5 ways to motivate you to hustle harder

Lesson 1 : Surround yourself with positive people.

Lesson 2 : Avoid negative people and situations .

Lesson 3 : Write down your goals and focus on it .

Lesson 4 : Also write down what stops you from hustle harder and try  to solve those issues.

Lesson 5 : Remember why you started . It will drive you to focus and hustle more .

Lesson 6 : Keep learning things which will help you while hustling to achieve your goals.

Check below for my favorite hustle quotes

I will wind up with Abraham Lincoln’s quote

Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle”.

Hustle Harder guys ! All the very best !!

More to come .. Stay tuned..

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Fail Forward !

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Today’s Life lesson

Hi friends, Good Morning !

Do you know what is mean by fail forward ? Failure ?

Failure is stepping stone to success.Failure is not the opposite of success It’s a part of success .

Quote : ” Even if you are on the right track You’ll get run over if you just sit there” – Unknown

Standing still has never helped anyone get anywhere. Keep failing forward!

Failure is a necessary part of progress! Fail forward and never give up! It’s all part of the learning process! It’s better to try and fall than to never try at all.It’s not how we fall It’s how we get back up.If you’re not failing, you’re not growing!!

You can’t let your failure define you .. You have to let your failure teach you.Yes Learn from your mistakes and move forward .No one said building an empire was easy, so go out there and take risks. If you fail, accept it, learn from it, and move forward. At least you are trying ! Before you start beating yourself up, remember. Life is a series of lessons learned only through a series of mistakes. Our biggest missteps often lead us directly to our most powerful breakthroughs. You’re doing awesome guys ! Lets wind up with Pitbull and Michael Jordan’s words today :

Wise words from Pit bull. . .
No overnight success, just years and years of doing, learning and failing. .

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Devi Venkatesan

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Quote : Be A Tree

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Happy Morning friends 

The tree does not bother about flowers that fall.It is always busy making new flowers blossom.Life is not about what we lost so far,its about what we can still grow.

Learn from trees .

Never look back your past .

Keep going ! Keep moving forward !

Have a Wonderful Tuesday friends !

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Happy Monday !

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Happy Monday everyone !

Here’s some Monday Motivation..

Mondays are new beginning , new week , new goals , new hopes , new opportunities …

Lets welcome Mondays with great enthusiasm , positivity and good energy .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Be happy and thankful for Mondays , that you are alive one more day and got the opportunity to prove your best . Who know, this day may make you proud !

Consider it as another opportunity to begin a new journey of success .

Mondays gives us chance to start fresh and correct last week’s mistakes .

Remember , You are going to do amazing things this week .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Don’t forget to Sparkle More and Shine Bright today and everyday .

Wishing you all a very happy and productive new week !

All the very best !

Devi Venkatesan

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Take small steps everyday

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Today’s Lesson/Affirmation

Take small steps everyday

I love the below proverb

The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.” – Chinese Proverb

Today is the day to take that one small step in the right direction . Start there . Then Repeat.

The key to achieving our goals lies in the small steps we make each day.In life a long journey to a far of place  starts with a one small step forward . Great things starts with one small step. No progress if you don’t step forward . All successful person are successful today because they have taken that one first step forward some day in their lives . Keep moving everyday no matter how big or small the steps are .. just keep stepping … Small steps each day will lead you to bigger goals and dreams . Each and every big things have only very small beginnings .

“Take small steps everyday and one day you’ll get there”  – Unknown.

Remember , A big empire is not built in a day , It’s built everyday .

What are you waiting for guys ! Are you ready to take that small step today !?

…take it today and every day….  🙂

Wishing you all a very productive day !

Devi Venkatesan

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The Importance of Self-Love

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Self Love – Love Yourself

 Self-love is essential to our happiness, relationships and dreams, but it can be hard to know HOW to love yourself. I’ve put together a list of Lessons below to help you get started. 

If you are not going to cheer ‘you,’ who will? If you don’t love you, who will? Ask yourself these questions. 

 “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
– Lucille Ball

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 Lesson 1:

Mirror Mirror on the wall:

Start each day by telling yourself something really positive. What you tell yourself is who you are. People’s opinions of you do not matter. What is important is what you tell that person in the mirror each day, that ‘I am beautiful’, ’I am Intelligent’, Anything that will make you smile .Every great thing we celebrate started with a thought. What you focus on focuses on you.

 Lesson 2 :

Self-Examine:

Do some self-examination. Evaluate where you are in your life at the moment. Think of the mistakes you’ve made, experiences you’ve gone through. Remember the lessons learned from your mistakes and experiences.

 Lesson 3 :

Treat yourself well:

Treating your body well not only boost your self-love, but also your energy… Learn to love the skin you’re in. Be intentional about what you put into your body, not only because you want to look good but because you want to feel good.

 Lesson 4  :

Be Calm and Relax :

Take time out to calm your mind everyday . Self-love is all about connecting with yourself.Being calm and relax allows you to connect with yourself by not thinking about what bills need be paid,what’s due at work  etc. Release your negative emotional energy and re-establish inner calm and peace .Just embrace the moment.

 Lesson 5 :

Self-Compassion is important:

Be good to you.. Be kind to you. Self Kindness leads to a healthy and happier life. Being Kind to you helps you to bounce back and to live a happier life

 Lesson 6 :

 Create a fantastic Community:

Surround yourself with people who love and encourage you. Let them remind you just how amazing you are.

 Lesson 7 :

Unplug from social media:

Sit down for a few minutes on your own. No TV or distractions, just you. Think about the wonderful things that are happening in your life right now, what your big dreams are and how you can make that happen.

 Lesson 8 :

Make a ‘What’s working for you list’:

Make a list of what’s really working for you. Write it down in a paper and once you see it on paper and accept all of the positivity in your life, it will make it easier to love yourself. Go through it again and again when you feel down. Your blessings and positivity gives a fresh energy when you feel depressed.

 Lesson 9 :

Practice Self care:

Spend time for Self-pampering. Keep doing what makes you happy. It can be a facial, body massage, applying moisturizer, cooking, gardening, playing with kids, adventures, fun games, watching a movie and so on…Get enough sleep, do yoga, have good food and drink plenty of water.

 Lesson 10 :

Be thankful:

Be thankful for all your blessings and positivity in life. Embrace and love the thing that makes you different. It brings peace to your mind and soul. I Stop taking my mind and body for granted and relish how blessed I am .

 Lesson 11 :

Clean out your closet:

Getting rid of old things will make room for new things to come in to your life! Cleansing your mind can sometimes work in the form of letting go of clothes, shoes, jewelry, etc. that remind you of a certain time in your life that links to a negative vibration. Don’t chase what’s already happened; love yourself enough to know the best is yet to come.

 Lesson 12 :

No more Comparisons:

They is no one on the planet like you .Remember that you are perfect just the way you are; being in a pattern of compare and despair only makes you focus on the negative, when there’s SO much to be grateful for. The only person you should compare yourself to  is you.

 Lesson 13:

Self- Improvement:

You’ve got your own skills and talents. Remember that you’re unique, you have special unique talents within you which no one has. Embrace and love the things that make you different. You’re blessed differently. Learn to respect your uniqueness and find ways to improve your skills and talents. Try to improve yourself everyday. Be better than yesterday.

 Lesson 14:

Celebrate every day:

Celebrate your wins no matter how big or small. Pat yourself on the back and be proud of what you have achieved.

 Lesson 15 :

End all toxic relationship:

Seriously, Anyone who makes you feel anything less than amazing doesn’t deserve to be a part of your life.

 Lesson 16 :

Learn to Letgo:

We’re constantly holding on to things in our past, and it can tend to weigh heavy on our souls and even give us low self-esteem. The more blocks we clear, the more we can really live big in the area of self-love. Although we may do this as a way to protect ourselves from hurting, it’s really only holding us back from moving forward to reaching optimal self-acceptance and loving who we are.

 Lesson 17 :

Be your best version:

Often do something you are good at. Feel this is a self-esteem booster, Yes, no doubt .. This is! Get creative and express yourself in whatever way you like. Participate in a hobby or whatever you’re good at It can  be a craft,painting,music you do or love to cook then cook It’ll bring the best in you .Self-love and self-esteem go hand in hand.

 Lesson 18 :

Accept your flaws and celebrate your strengths:

Self-love does not mean dismissing your mistakes, no, it’s acknowledging them and making a deliberate choice to love you with all your flaws, insecurities, mistakes and choosing each day to do better, be better and ultimately live each day being you, doing you, fulfilling your purpose- what you were called to do on earth and ignoring the background noise. Stay focused, there are so many distractions in today’s world, don’t let it deter you from your goals and the amazing future that lies ahead of you.

If you love this post, be sure to leave a comment. What are your favorite self-care tips? I would love to know your thoughts. Make sure you follow on Facebook,Twitter and Instagram for motivational quotes, Personal development posts, life hacks and everything you need to be a better ‘you’ each day.

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I Can Always Rise Up !

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We can’t always stop the storms from coming, but we can choose to shine after they’re over. Rise above the storm you’ll find the Sunshine.

So many of us have been hurt, heartbroken, abandoned, bullied, overlooked, disappointed, used, abused, etc., Try to heal from the past pain and learn to turn our pain into power.I salute women who choose to rise above from her worst circumstances .

 

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Learn to turn your Problems in to Solutions

Turn your Struggles into Strength

Turn your Pains into Power

Turn your bad days in to blessings

Shine On !! Stay Awesome ladies !

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Devi Venkatesan

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