How to Celebrate Yourself ?

Good Morning loves, Happy Friday!!!

Today is 1st of December . This is the beginning of new month,new things.. I would like to tell you the lessons I’ve learned last month (November 2017) November has been a great month to me in terms of my business and personal life . It gave me some clear picture of certain things which troubled me for quite sometime now . I’ve learned a very important life lesson in November . I thought lot of young mothers with toddlers need to know it. I would share it with you so that it will be of use to someone .

I’ve learned to be good to myself (learnt to celebrate myself ) . I’ve got some time off from my routine work . I used my thanksgiving holidays to pamper myself. Ha Ha Yes self – pampering is good . Treating yourself good should be the first mantra to all women/mother  . I felt so relaxed and recharged .

Self-love is self-care , Caring yourself well when you get time . Create time for yourself . I have learned to enjoy treating myself . Life is too short to not to treat yourself ! Celebrate all small win . Remember , You are worth it and deserve it !

Love your curves! Embrace your body, your spirit and all that you are! I celebrate myself…💟💟💟 Learn to embrace your natural self

Nothing makes a woman more BEAUTIFUL than the BELIEF that she already is BEAUTIFUL .

Self respect, Self-worth and self-love all start with self. Stop looking outside of yourself for your value. – Rob Liano

As most of the Women thinks, Self-Love is not only exercising  and working out and maintaining figure . A small act which keeps you relaxed and happy is self-care.Get a massage , Get a facial , Go to the local ice cream parlor and indulge in the an ice cream , Go for a new fabulous hair style ,  Go for a long walk, Meditate, Practice yoga , Eat your favorite food, Watch your favorite movie of your choice , Visit friends and family members , Dress up well and take a selfie , Play with your dog, Enjoy your ‘ME -Time’,Go  shopping ( who would say no to shopping 🙂 )  buy your favorite nail polish or lipstick , Buy handbags, Buy the new pair of shoes you have been wanting, Read your favorite book , sleep and rest well and lot more .. Do more of things makes you happy and makes your soul shine .

There is nothing wrong with a constant need to do better- to grow, try new things, to learn and wanting to become a better person. But as you grow and learn, remember to stop once in a while and tell yourself that you’ve done a good job so far. Look at how far you’ve come, don’t be too hard on yourself. Loving yourself isn’t selfish. It’s not about conceit. It’s not about thinking you’re better than someone else. It is, however, a lot more than just “accepting” yourself.

This is what I did to pamper myself .(See pictures below)

1 . I made my hair red .. New-hairdo

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See below , I had fun sharing pictures of my new hair style with my Facebook friends (their comments made me laugh Lol )

2. I cooked my favorite food .

I made my favorite, simple and easy onion garlic gray for lunch.

It’s so easy to prepare and tastes yummy  with white rice.My Mom used to prepare it . (Feeling Nostalgic ) This is a Indian menu .

(Pictures from my Facebook post)

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3 . I had my favorite dishes in Plantain leaf . It’s a nostalgic feeling having food in plantain leaf . ( lot of childhood memories , those days during festive season we used to have festive food (feasting ) in plantain leaf .

 

I’ve learned to love me more and more now.

It’s time to close one door to open the next… Continuously moving forward with confidence and pride in who you are and where you are in your journey! …

Wishing you a new month and beautiful day filled with laughter and abundant love!!!

When was the last time you treated yourself ? What did you do? Would love to see your comments .

Love Always , Devi Venkatesan

 

 

Start now .. Act .. And Make Things Happen !

 

MakeThingsHappen.jpgHappy Monday! This may be an “Old One”…but its timeless!

Start now .. Act .. And Make Things Happen !

Everyone wants to go to heaven but no one wants to die. Complaining about your situation and business results makes no sense to me. If you’re not doing the work over a sustained period of time then you’re obviously going to see crappy results. We’re all meant to struggle so we deserve success.

Ask a question to yourself at the end of everyday , What you did today to improve all your tomorrows  !? Do something today your future self will thank you for .. Start today .. This’s a good time to start..It’s not that you need to take massive action today . Take small baby steps forward day by day will take you to the path of success .

If you have WILL and a WHY that is strong enough…You will ALWAYS push really hard and find a WAY to make it happen!

I can tell you from my experience…This simply works! 

There are unlimited opportunities available with this new day. Take action on those wonderful dreams you have had in your mind for so long!

Please remember, success is something you experience when you act accordingly! So if you want to be successful please make sure you act like..

A Will And WHY Makes Things Happen! Make sure you participate in your dreams today .

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  You know you could do more and be more. Think about all the books you haven’t read and the seminars you haven’t attended yet. The rejection and struggle you still haven’t dealt with. Being successful is hard, really hard. Being broke and living paycheck to paycheck is also really hard though. Pick your hard.

No need to make excuses. We all have them. We all deal with craziness. It’s called life and none of us are getting out alive. It’s all about what you do with that little dash on your tombstone.

Let’s get busy and stop all that stinking thinking ! 

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Begin where you are, Take Action, Keep focusing on the goal, and if you feel Temporarily “Stuck” Or “Defeated”…Notice I said temporarily!

Procrastinators who say, “There’s always tomorrow!” They deny the reality that one day, they will be wrong. Do something today that your future self will thank you for!

No matter how many mistakes you make, or how slow you are progressing, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying. Keep on pushing forward !

Lets wind up with Robert Collier’s quote

” If you don’t make things happen then things will happen to you. “
People, Why are you waiting !? Stop waiting for things to happen.Go out and MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.

Have a productive day !

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INSPIRING STORY THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Inspiring story that will change your life .

“Sometimes you have to be willing to let go of something old to grab onto something new. You have to be willing to let a part of you die that you used to be comfortable with in order for another part of you to be born.” ~ Lisa Nichols

Don’t hesitate to share your story who knows it might inspire someone today . 

An inspiring story has the power to touch your heart and forever change your life . And I know for sure that the inspiring story of this brave and amazing woman will most definitely touch your heart and forever change your life.

 

 

What about you? What can you do today to change your life and become a source of inspiration for yourself and those around you? You can share your comment below 🙂

Devi Venkatesan

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Five Morning Routines to keep your day happy.

Hi Everyone ! Good Morning !

I believe the way we start the day is setting the tone for the entire day.

Start each day with a grateful heart .Establishing a healthy and positive morning routine will change your life. Not only does it set the mood, intention, and productivity for the rest of the day, it can transform your mindset. My morning routine allows me to feel energized and ready to begin my day. If you’re currently dreading your alarm clock, dragging yourself out of bed, and starting the day feeling unmotivated, the option to change it is in your hands. Mix up your routine!I believe in the power of habit and routines. Habits and routine allow you to stay on track and keep moving forward when things get hard. They help you to conserve your willpower so you can focus on what matters most to you. The most important part about establishing habits and routines, is being able to break them when necessary. (However, remember if you always break your routine, then it’s not a routine!). Routines provide a great deal of comfort, and even if those you have set in place are healthy (working out, eating healthy, etc.), being able to break them is just as important. For me, breaking routine is difficult, however, sometimes it’s exactly what I need (and sometimes I don’t have any choice). This week I had to travel for work, which forced me to change my workout schedule and my eating habits, and most importantly reminded me of the fact that sometimes breaking routine is really important. Sometimes life is found outside of your usual routine. One of the great parts of having a routine is being able (and okay) to break it.

Thank God/Nature for the new day . God has given you another day to live .. One more chance to make your life bright . 

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In our busy lives, a morning routine can bring you peace and give the rest of your day purpose.Routines can do a lot of good to us , if we can get into the regular discipline of practicing them.

I would like to share some morning routines to keep your day happy and full of energy .

I am a part of 5 am club.I wake up at 5 am and drink two big glasses of water. 

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Start your day with yoga,meditation or breathing exercise.

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Have a cup of your favorite drink . (Like coffee/Tea)

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Listen good music , spiritual music or speech for 10 mins or so.

Read/Listen positive   quotes to inspire/motivate and keep you focused the whole day .

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Go for a walk in nature it will help you to keep you active through out the day .

This will lift your spirit and energy up.

Whats your morning routine ? Share in the comments .

Have a great day ahead !

Devi Venkatesan

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5 Hater quotes to Motivate you

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Hi Everyone ! Good Morning / Evening

Here’s five quotes about hates which will motivate you to move forward .Haters don’t really hate, they hate themselves because you are a reflection of what they wish to be.

Not everyone likes me .. but not everyone matters .

“Haters are my favorite. I’ve built an empire with the bricks they’ve thrown at me. Keep on hating.”– C.M. Punk

“You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”– Shannon L. Alder

“Some people have so little going on in their lives, they would rather discuss yours.”– Unknown

“Wish all your enemies a long life, so they can see you succeed in life.”– Nishan Panwar

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Look for good in everything

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Good Morning/Evening everyone ! Today’s Quote ..

“Train your mind and heart to see the good in everything. There is always something to be grateful for.” 
— Unknown Author

Finding the positive qualities in other people is an important part of your personal development. As you get better at finding the positive aspects of other people, you become more proficient at finding the positive aspects of yourself. 

I’ve  learnt to remind myself that I don’t know the other persons full story. I recently came across the saying “Don’t judge my story based on the chapter you happened to walk in on.” Even when you know someone well, you can’t assume to know what’s going on in their head or heart or life – at any given point in time.

I also find that if I am bothered by someone’s behavior, realizing that it’s probably not directed at me, but rather an expression of how they’re feeling at that point of time, helps me to see the situation from a more objective standpoint.

Seeing the good in other people is a challenging pursuit.Basic social skills like smiling and maintaining eye contact will help.Start noticing only positive intentions underlying peoples’ actions and forgive them for these actions.

When you look for the beauty in every person and situation, life becomes so much better. When you can see the good in everything, you will be genuinely happy and enjoy life so much more

How do you look for good in others ? Let’s get the conversation going in the comment section.

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