Today’s Affirmation

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I give up freely what is no longer serving me . I release it to create space for what inspires me . Learn to forgive people and release them . I would love to be better and Not bitter . It takes a lot of energy to hold onto all that resentments,anger and hurt someone has caused you . I don’t give energy to something from the past that I cannot control or change .

Business Tips

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Motivation : Quotes :

The only time you should ever look back,is to see how far you’ve come .

For me it’s been 10 plus years journey already..

Lots of ups. 
Lots of downs.

Haters.
Supporters.

I’m grateful for all of them though.

Thanks for the haters ,doubters , naysayers and struggles that made me a stronger person.  because all of that led to the biggest breakthroughs, that probably wouldn’t have happened any other way.

They said I cannot do .They said i’m not worth it .
They said I wouldn’t succeed at anything .They said I’m not capable .. and discouraged me many times.

Ever heard some of that? 

Had I listened to them, I’d still be slaving away .

Instead..

I developed my skills

I did personal development.. improved myself in all required areas .

Made some incredible friends

I ignored negative people and was surrounded by people who supported and guided me .

I’m not saying this to brag though.

Here are some major lessons that will help you get closer to your goals:

 Find people who have done what you want and learn from them.

 Invest in yourself.

Invest in courses, coaching, training . Go to events – that where all the magic happens.

(contact me for social media recruiting/business training I would love to help you anytime 🙂 )

 EXECUTE

Take action .. Don’t think just because you invest in yourself, you’ll make it happen.

Applied knowledge is what makes a difference.

Take action = you get results.
No action = no results.

 Be prepared to fail and face the failure . Things will go wrong, even when you think the opposite.

In business you gotta have a thick skin. So face the challenges and deal with them. That’s what will turn you into a successful person you’re meant to be.

 Be consistent with your income producing activities, because if you do the right things, you will succeed. It’s inevitable.

But you MUST stick to the process. Otherwise you’ll have to start all over again..

If you’re still reading this, congrats! Lol

Now you know what you need to be doing. Just go out and do it!

Yassh DO IT ! All the best

Love, Devi ❤

Two Principles For A Happy Life

 

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Good morning!

Two Principles for a happy life :
Use things not people. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦
❤️ Love people not things.

Take time in your life to enjoy the things that matter the most to you!😉

Love , Devi

Keep Going

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Happy Morning friends 

The tree does not bother about flowers that fall.It is always busy making new flowers blossom.Life is not about what we lost so far,its about what we can still grow.     

Keep Going .. Keep Moving Forward ..

Love , Devi ❤

STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU

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I just happen to see a friend’s Facebook status post , Looks like she’s upset of other people’s opinion about her .

Ladies! Remember, You will never grow if you keep thinking of what others ll think of you or talk behind you .. And the result is 1) You ll get hurt and worry
2) Worry is a waste of time
3) Worry has the super power to make you sick and ugly . ( you ll lose your charm and beauty ).
4) You can never grow .
5 ) You can not move forward in your life or business .
6) You ll lose happiness .

Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive – Learn to let it go .

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When you care what people think of you – you are giving them your power, your energy, and control over you.

You’re going to live your life . Live it to the Fullest .. No one is going to pay your bills or feed you . You’re responsible for your peace of mind . Peace of mind is important than people . Choose your friends wisely . Don’t give a shit to anyone and anything . We have options like Unfriend, Block and Ignore such ppl from our life and social media . You matter !! #fakepeople #fakefriends

Bottom Line :

Stop Worrying and Start Living .

Finally , You will lose 4 Hs #4
hours health,honor ,happiness .
The #4 Hs with come to you if you ready to accept the #2 Hs
Ready to Heal and Head Forward .
You’ re the only #1 H to your life
Yes. You’re the only HERO in your life !
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#devivenkatesan #dontgiveashittoanyone #youmatter  #luckymominspires #yourlife #designyourlife#ownyourlife #brave #courage #bold #beyourownhero   

BEST SET OF ADVISE

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Hey Happy Morning/Evening everyone !!
This is my Fb/IG post today (shared it from a friends wall) This is a very interesting post and I want everyone to benefit.
THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST SET OF ADVISE l HAVE EVER READ. ALL MANKIND NEEDS THIS ADVICE!!!

1. Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead; if you lose, you can guide.

2. People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions.

3. When someone hurts you, don’t feel bad because it’s a law of nature that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stones.

4. Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath.

5. In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your success. It depends on what you make from them – a wall or a bridge.

6. Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful.

7. There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat.

8. A path without obstacles leads nowhere.

9. Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay.

10. You can’t have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.

11. If what you did yesterday still looks big to you, then you haven’t done much today.

12. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

13. If you don’t climb the mountain; you can’t view the plain.

14. Don’t leave it idle – use your brain.

15. You are not paid for having brain, you are only rewarded for using it intelligently.

16. It is not what you don’t have that limits you; it is what you have but don’t know how to use.

17. What you fail to learn might teach you a lesson.

18. The difference between a corrupt person and an honest person is: The corrupt person has a price while the honest person has a value.

19. If you succeed in cheating someone, don’t think that the person is a fool…… Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.

20. Honesty is an expensive gift; don’t expect it from cheap people.

Love, Devi ❤

Super Saturday Motivation

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Happy Saturday everyone ❤

You get what you focus on…so focus on what you want.

The secret to success is to be able to stay focused on EXACTLY what you want…regardless of how long it takes or what temporary obstacles might be in your way. 

Love , Devi ❤

Strong is the new pretty !

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Day 26 of 365

Hey Beautiful !

Strong is the new pretty . Be strong  . You have survived all bad days and I’m sure you will survive whatever is coming . Relax, It’s just a matter of time . Time heals everything . Trust yourself !

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Just Remember, It’s just a bad day or bad past And not a bad life .

And I know. I know how difficult it is to move on, to heal. But I promise you — you are going to survive this. You are.
Little by little, a gentle light will begin to replace the darkness. Hope will override some of the shadows. You’ll start to enjoy being with your friends. You might even laugh. You won’t be so afraid of spending time alone, because you won’t be so scared of your own thoughts. You’ll start to trust yourself again, and trust your heart again.

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And then you will begin to understand. You’ll playback the memories in your mind, and you’ll actually start to see some of the flaws and glitches, the moments when things were not right. You’ll see the messiness. You’ll begin to understand why all this happened .
You will mourn the loss and the absence of someone you once cared for, but you will finally understand that what happened was meant to happen. And little by little, you will begin to move on. You will know that you deserve more. You will finally know that something better awaits you.
And you will finally learn that everything you need to be able to heal is already inside of you. The courage, the compassion, the bravery and the strength, are all within you. You will learn that being alone does not mean being lonely.
And once you know this, you will begin to heal.

And then, in time, the color will return to your world, and the sparkle will return to your eyes. ❤
And then, in time, you will heal.

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Friends ,

Know this , You’re Sexy , Sassy and Strong !

Yes believe me , Sexy Sassy and Strong . No one can break you . The current situation will change and you are the change . Everything happens for a reason . Nothing is permanent and so far you have survived all worst days  . This too shall pass .. Look back your past to only recollect the lessons it taught you . Better things are on its way ! Keep Going !

I’m glad to wind up this post with a good message and loads of love,hugs and positive vibes to all those who need . ❤ ❤ ❤

Forgot to mention , Sending colorful beautiful flowers to all of you ❤

 

Love & Peace , Devi ❤

Failure Is Not Final !

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Happy Morning/Evening  friends    When I got enough confidence, the stage was gone….. When I was sure of Losing, I won……. When I needed People the most, they Left me……. When I learnt to dry my Tears, I found a shoulder to Cry on…… When I mastered the Skill of Hating, people started Loving me from the core of their Heart…… And, while waiting for Light for Hours when I fell asleep, the Sun came out….. That’s LIFE!! No matter what you Plan, you never know what Life has Planned for you…… Success introduces you to the World……. But Failure introduces the World to you……. ……Always be Happy!! Often when we lose Hope and think this is the end… God smiles from above and says, “Relax Sweetheart; It’s just a Bend, not the End..!”   

 

No Rain No Flowers

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Happy Morning Everyone !

Dear Mamas , How are you all ? Are you struggling in life ? Are you finding any hardship ? Is your day bad ?

To whoever’s reading this,you may be struggling right now,but hold on,don’t give up!! Your current situation,is not your final destination.. You are not in a storm you are in a transition.I think that sometimes when things don’t always go as  planned or how we may want them to go I feel that facing obstacles only makes us stronger.. That we’re able to grow & learn through the darker / rainy days, so I just wanted to share this quote as it really spoke to me in a deeper way, helped me through today & also expresses my sunshine state of mind. When the going gets tough just remember, no rain, no flowers .Especially as an entrepreneur, but in ALL areas in life… setbacks equal a learning opportunity, not failure. .

No Rain No Flowers

No Rain No Rainbows

No mud. No lotus.

No pain. No gain.

No practice. No outcome

Truth is, all of us will go through hardship, to varying degrees, at some point in our lives. History tells us that majority of the the greatest personalities all went through hardship on their way to legitimate success. Without that rain no flower will grow.

Here is a reminder to all my Women Entrepreneur friends,”

With struggles and challenges, there comes successes and accomplishments. Without failure we wouldn’t learn as much and success wouldn’t taste as good .Without hardship in our past we wouldn’t be able to inspire, help and empower people who are going through the same thing we did. Keep Moving ”

Understand one thing clearly,

“There is not a great victory, without a painful battle…” Without tough times you’d never appreciate the good! Life is a mix of high and lows, valley and mountains, sunny days and storm and that what makes it gorgeous!  Without the hard parts we wouldn’t be able to enjoy the beautiful parts as much.A good reminder for those not so perfect days. We all have them. There is no way of living life with a happiness filter but you must choose happiness every day. Some days are harder than others, but I needed this reminder today. Learn to shine with or without the sun. Either way, you’ll be just fine. Life doesn’t always go the way you plan it. There will be ups. There will be downs. But despite what it may currently look like; remember that all things are in purpose, on purpose! If you’re currently going through a season where life doesn’t seem to be going your way. I’d like to remind you that in order for the flowers to blossom, they must first withstand the rain. It’s the seasons where life seems to just be pouring down on us, where the most beauty comes from. Don’t run away from rain! On the contrary, embrace it! When the storms pass, you’ll see it was all worth it. Until that day comes, just remember – No Rain, No Flowers! pour down and I’ll bloom. . You have to go through your storm in order to grow stronger, more beautiful. I’ve had lots of rainy days and I’ve had days full of flowers, sunshine and great days. Even a bad day have 24 hours. So I know better than anyone it won’t rain forever and I’ll see the flowers again.

It’s not easy to see the positive when we are in the midst of a storm, but there is also a positive side and the storm never lasts!

Learn to embrace the storms in your life

Love Always , Devi

Let Go !

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“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” Hermann Hesse

Today, let go of some of the negative thinking, patterns, or people who consistently weigh you down. You’ll find it much easier to rise, rise above, and reach new goals.

Much Love , Devi

Your time is too precious.

 

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Surround yourself with positive people.

Dont waste your time with someone who keep putting you off. You are not their priority. Recognized that! Your time is too precious.

Love Always , Devi

Sunday Morning Message !

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Make Sundays Awesome ❤ Take a break .. Take a break .. Take a break ..

To- Do-List  : NOTHING  because its Sunday .

Sunday Morning Message : PRESS PAUSE ..Yes, Just press pause and unplug your internet .

Be Aware That You Need to Renew And Refresh ..

Remember , Never be too busy that you don’t have time to live your life .

Do you know sometimes ?! the most productive thing we can do is to relax ! You don’t always to be busy working. Sometime it’s okay to do nothing .. Slow down !

Sunday is the day to be with family and kids . Spend time pampering kids.Eat healthy and have lots of fun moments . Go out and walk in the nature . Create more good memories for tomorrow .

Attract happiness and peace !

Relax..Refresh..Renew..Rejuvenate .. Recharge

How many of you creating memories ?? Let the discussion continue in the comment below 🙂 🙂 Happy Sunday !

Love Always , Devi

Today is a brand new day !

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Good Morning/Evening loves !!

Today is a brand new day !

The ego says: I’m still pissed about yesterday
The Spirit says: New day, new attitude

We fall, we rise, we make mistakes, we live, we learn we’re human not perfect. We’ve been hurt but we’re alive- to breathe, to think, to enjoy, and to pursue the things that we love. Sometimes there is sadness in the journey, but there is also lots of beauty. We must keep putting one foot in front of the other even when it is difficult, for we never know what is waiting just around the corner 💛

Have a great day !

Love Always , Devi

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How to Celebrate Yourself ?

Good Morning loves, Happy Friday!!!

Today is 1st of December . This is the beginning of new month,new things.. I would like to tell you the lessons I’ve learned last month (November 2017) November has been a great month to me in terms of my business and personal life . It gave me some clear picture of certain things which troubled me for quite sometime now . I’ve learned a very important life lesson in November . I thought lot of young mothers with toddlers need to know it. I would share it with you so that it will be of use to someone .

I’ve learned to be good to myself (learnt to celebrate myself ) . I’ve got some time off from my routine work . I used my thanksgiving holidays to pamper myself. Ha Ha Yes self – pampering is good . Treating yourself good should be the first mantra to all women/mother  . I felt so relaxed and recharged .

Self-love is self-care , Caring yourself well when you get time . Create time for yourself . I have learned to enjoy treating myself . Life is too short to not to treat yourself ! Celebrate all small win . Remember , You are worth it and deserve it !

Love your curves! Embrace your body, your spirit and all that you are! I celebrate myself…💟💟💟 Learn to embrace your natural self

Nothing makes a woman more BEAUTIFUL than the BELIEF that she already is BEAUTIFUL .

Self respect, Self-worth and self-love all start with self. Stop looking outside of yourself for your value. – Rob Liano

As most of the Women thinks, Self-Love is not only exercising  and working out and maintaining figure . A small act which keeps you relaxed and happy is self-care.Get a massage , Get a facial , Go to the local ice cream parlor and indulge in the an ice cream , Go for a new fabulous hair style ,  Go for a long walk, Meditate, Practice yoga , Eat your favorite food, Watch your favorite movie of your choice , Visit friends and family members , Dress up well and take a selfie , Play with your dog, Enjoy your ‘ME -Time’,Go  shopping ( who would say no to shopping 🙂 )  buy your favorite nail polish or lipstick , Buy handbags, Buy the new pair of shoes you have been wanting, Read your favorite book , sleep and rest well and lot more .. Do more of things makes you happy and makes your soul shine .

There is nothing wrong with a constant need to do better- to grow, try new things, to learn and wanting to become a better person. But as you grow and learn, remember to stop once in a while and tell yourself that you’ve done a good job so far. Look at how far you’ve come, don’t be too hard on yourself. Loving yourself isn’t selfish. It’s not about conceit. It’s not about thinking you’re better than someone else. It is, however, a lot more than just “accepting” yourself.

This is what I did to pamper myself .(See pictures below)

1 . I made my hair red .. New-hairdo

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See below , I had fun sharing pictures of my new hair style with my Facebook friends (their comments made me laugh Lol )

2. I cooked my favorite food .

I made my favorite, simple and easy onion garlic gray for lunch.

It’s so easy to prepare and tastes yummy  with white rice.My Mom used to prepare it . (Feeling Nostalgic ) This is a Indian menu .

(Pictures from my Facebook post)

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3 . I had my favorite dishes in Plantain leaf . It’s a nostalgic feeling having food in plantain leaf . ( lot of childhood memories , those days during festive season we used to have festive food (feasting ) in plantain leaf .

 

I’ve learned to love me more and more now.

It’s time to close one door to open the next… Continuously moving forward with confidence and pride in who you are and where you are in your journey! …

Wishing you a new month and beautiful day filled with laughter and abundant love!!!

When was the last time you treated yourself ? What did you do? Would love to see your comments .

Love Always , Devi Venkatesan

 

 

You Are Fortunate, You Are Lucky, You Are Blessed

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Feel that you are fortunate , Lucky and blessed !

Do not go to bed thinking of all the things you need to do tomorrow or during this busy holiday season — Don’t stay up all night laboring over the things that are pressing and stressing. Instead, labor over the things you’re SO 🙏 grateful for.

✏️ Write down your list of things to do tomorrow. Flush it from your mind once it’s written down. Then, flush your “to do list” from your mind by replacing it with gratitude.

As you lay down for the night, take just FIVE minutes and THINK about the things you’re 🙏 grateful for. The roof over your head. Running water that is clean. The pillow under your head. Clean clothes to wear. Your health. Your family’s safety. Be grateful for what you DO have.

Even if you have to DIG down REALLY deep to find the things that are going RIGHT… find them. Hang on to them. Dwell on them. Thank GOD for them.

Going to bed feeling grateful for what you have will put you into a place of peace and help you sleep better, too! ❤️

Love Always , Devi Venkatesan

Monday Motivation

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Happy Monday !!

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by living the results of other peoples thinking. Don’t let the opinion of others drown out YOUR OWN inner voice….and most important, have the courage to follow YOUR heart , intuition and dreams. They already know somehow what you truly want to become! Have An Amazing Day Or Night, Wherever you are in the world!

Let’s slay the day !

#lifelesson  #devivenkatesan

Life Is Tough But So Are You !

 

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Sometimes your circle decreases in size but increases in quality & value. ⭐️⭐️ Surround yourself with those that already have what you want, those who inspire you to be better & do better, the people who want to see you grow! Complainers are success drainers. Life is tough but so are you! Take pride in being tough! 💪🏼

 Have a positive outlook on every situation. It’s YOUR time to shine! 

Devi Venkatesan

#devivenkatesan

I was made for this.

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It doesn’t matter how much money you make.

Sometimes you want to quit.

It gets hard. It’s stressful. You wonder why you stick it out.

It happens to all of us.

It happens to me

Not often. But it does.

Then I remember why I  started , why I LOVE what I get to do with my life. I remember the things I was created for.

And I am so damn grateful for every one who told me no. Everyone who yelled . Every hater. Every skeptic. Every team member along the way who has touched my life. Every client I get to help.

I was made for this 😍

Don’t Quit. Never give up . Find a way !

Devi Venkatesan

#devivenkatesan #mybloginspires

No More Excuses

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Hi My Dear People , Happy Morning / Evening

Here’s today’s Life Tip / Life Lesson

Do you know?!

Excuses don’t make bank deposits .

Excuses don’t give results. You will find greatness when you lose excuses .

If you aren’t willing to work for it Don’t worry about not to having it .

Work for Greatness

Work for results

Go Get It !

Hope this will be of some motivation for you to start your day . Please comment below about your day . Have a productive day ! Wish you all success today !!

Devi Venkatesan

#devivenkatesan #mybloginspires

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You Are Enough .

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Good Morning / Evening beautiful people !

Sending Morning wishes .. Do you know, You are just enough the way you are ??

You were born being enough. 

Until you know that you are enough just the way you are, you will continue to look for more.  Believe in your own values and worth . You are not too much and not too little . You are just right . Don’t compare you with others. Be who you are and what you are .

You are doing enough . In fact you are doing more than you can even see . So don’t worry take the pressure off and start believing that you are good enough and that’s your super power .

Don’t wish or try to be someone else You are not them. You are amazing and not ordinary .You have a super power with in you . You are perfect,awesome,complete and whole.There is nothing to fix about you.

Don’t give power to your negative inner voice or to others to belittle you . Don’t be too hard on yourself .There are plenty of people waiting to do that for you.Love yourself and be proud of everything that you do and have . 

Remember one thing , You alone are enough and you have nothing to prove to anyone.

God never makes a mistake in creation. So believe that you are enough the way you are .

I would windup this post by sharing Dr.Steve Maraboli’s quotes

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What’s your thoughts about this topic ? Let the discussion continue in the comment .

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Not Everyone You Lose Is A Loss.

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People may come and go it means their part in your story is over . Remember, Not everyone you lose is a loss. Many people may come and leave, and it is always good because they empty some space for better people. Nobody is worth stressing over..Just move on . Life goes on ..

Devi Venkatesan

#devivenkatesan #mybloginspires #Lifelesson #Lifetips

You deserve to be celebrated !

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Happy Morning / Evening people !

Always remember that you deserve to be celebrated!! You deserve better than just being tolerated! You are a precious soul and shine like the sun!!! Wishing you a day filled with joy, laughter and endless love!

Devi Venkatesan

#Devivenkatesan #mybloginspires #lifetips #lifelessons

Inspiration from Beautiful Celebrities

Hi Beautiful Ladies,

Happy Super Saturday !!

Here’s some amazing inspirational quotes/LifeLessons from some of the most beautiful women (actors) across  the globe. Hope these quotes will motivate you .

It adds value when a public personality says something inspiring ..

I am sure these quotes will inspire all women who reads it .Below are some of my favorite big screen personalities . They are beautiful,strong,courageous and inspiring .

I love love word by word ..

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When people walk away from you,let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn’t mean they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over – Julia Roberts

Marilyn Manroe

Nothing lasts forever,so live it up,drink it down,laugh it off,avoid the bullshit,take chances and never have regrets,because at one point everything you did was exactly what you wanted . – Marilyn Monroe

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It’s very important to follow your heart – Deepika Padukone

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There is no greater pillar of stability than a strong,free and educated woman. And there is no more inspiring role model than a man who respects and cherishes women and champions their leadership. – Angelina Jolie

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Look above what the most beautiful and intelligent Aishwarya Rai says..

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“We are the change that we seek Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time” – Bipasha Basu

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Don’t let your wounds make you become someone you’re not . – Demi Moore

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I think what you achieve in your life is the result of your own talent and hard work . – Deepika Padukone

 

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The older you get ,the more fragile you understand life to be. I think that’s a good motivation for getting of bed joyfully each day – Julia Roberts

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“So keep your head high,keep your chin up, and most importantly,keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.” – Marilyn Monroe

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“You know, I’ve got wrinkles on my forehead and smile lines,but what’s wrong with that? I love to smile.” – Jennifer Aniston

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“Some people are naturally thin,and some are heavier.There is a lot of focus on it,and it can be a lot of pressure for people.But honestly,I think as long as someone is healthy,that is most important . ” – Jennifer Lopez

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Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You .

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Hi Good Morning/Evening Everyone !

Happy Friday ! Today’s Quote

Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You . – Devi Venkatesan

When you FOCUS on you and INVEST in you, there is no competition because no one else has your story and your journey…

Have a wonderful day !

Devi Venkatesan

#devivenkatesan #mybloginspires

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5 Hater quotes to Motivate you

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Hi Everyone ! Good Morning / Evening

Here’s five quotes about hates which will motivate you to move forward .Haters don’t really hate, they hate themselves because you are a reflection of what they wish to be.

Not everyone likes me .. but not everyone matters .

“Haters are my favorite. I’ve built an empire with the bricks they’ve thrown at me. Keep on hating.”– C.M. Punk

“You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”– Shannon L. Alder

“Some people have so little going on in their lives, they would rather discuss yours.”– Unknown

“Wish all your enemies a long life, so they can see you succeed in life.”– Nishan Panwar

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Look for good in everything

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Good Morning/Evening everyone ! Today’s Quote ..

“Train your mind and heart to see the good in everything. There is always something to be grateful for.” 
— Unknown Author

Finding the positive qualities in other people is an important part of your personal development. As you get better at finding the positive aspects of other people, you become more proficient at finding the positive aspects of yourself. 

I’ve  learnt to remind myself that I don’t know the other persons full story. I recently came across the saying “Don’t judge my story based on the chapter you happened to walk in on.” Even when you know someone well, you can’t assume to know what’s going on in their head or heart or life – at any given point in time.

I also find that if I am bothered by someone’s behavior, realizing that it’s probably not directed at me, but rather an expression of how they’re feeling at that point of time, helps me to see the situation from a more objective standpoint.

Seeing the good in other people is a challenging pursuit.Basic social skills like smiling and maintaining eye contact will help.Start noticing only positive intentions underlying peoples’ actions and forgive them for these actions.

When you look for the beauty in every person and situation, life becomes so much better. When you can see the good in everything, you will be genuinely happy and enjoy life so much more

How do you look for good in others ? Let’s get the conversation going in the comment section.

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Devi Venkatesan

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Hustle

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Ridiculously awesome  things come to those who hustle.

I love this quote from Muhammad Ali

“Never Lose Sight Of The Goal. Always Remember Why You Hustle”

Don’t just dream for it Instead hustle for it . If you want to be successful in your future don’t hesitate to hustle now. Keep on hustling because there is no shortcuts.

Do you know ?! It’s easy to stand with the crowd but difficult to shine apart . Be a hustler who  learns from his mistakes and tries to improve every single day.

Hustle in the silence . Let your success makes the noise .

5 ways to motivate you to hustle harder

Lesson 1 : Surround yourself with positive people.

Lesson 2 : Avoid negative people and situations .

Lesson 3 : Write down your goals and focus on it .

Lesson 4 : Also write down what stops you from hustle harder and try  to solve those issues.

Lesson 5 : Remember why you started . It will drive you to focus and hustle more .

Lesson 6 : Keep learning things which will help you while hustling to achieve your goals.

Check below for my favorite hustle quotes

I will wind up with Abraham Lincoln’s quote

Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle”.

Hustle Harder guys ! All the very best !!

More to come .. Stay tuned..

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You are not a tree..MOVE

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Hey Guys, Good Morning !

Happy Friday ! Today’s quote

If you don’t like where you are move you’re not a tree.Many people in this world spend their time being unhappy, complaining about where they are or where their life is headed without making any effort to change things or make the situation better. If you are unhappy where you are then you have the ability to move, shaking things up and changing your situation so that it is better than before. You are not a tree, you have not put down permanent roots that anchor you in place. You can move and change your location, as well as your situation, without too much trouble and effort. People have been changing their locations and migrating towards a better life for thousands of years and this is still a possibility today. You can stay where you are and stay unhappy with your circumstances or you can move and possibly change things for the better.

If you do not like your current location then moving could solve your problems and help you find greater happiness. Whether you are hoping to find a better neighborhood, more friends, a job that offers better pay or benefits, or just a change of scenery and a different pace then relocating could offer this to you. There are many places where you might be happier and have a life that is more fulfilling but you have to take the first step and make a move if you want things to change. Don’t be one of those people who are always complaining about where they live or how their life is turning out without ever trying to change things or make their situation better.

Devi Venkatesan

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Fail Forward !

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Today’s Life lesson

Hi friends, Good Morning !

Do you know what is mean by fail forward ? Failure ?

Failure is stepping stone to success.Failure is not the opposite of success It’s a part of success .

Quote : ” Even if you are on the right track You’ll get run over if you just sit there” – Unknown

Standing still has never helped anyone get anywhere. Keep failing forward!

Failure is a necessary part of progress! Fail forward and never give up! It’s all part of the learning process! It’s better to try and fall than to never try at all.It’s not how we fall It’s how we get back up.If you’re not failing, you’re not growing!!

You can’t let your failure define you .. You have to let your failure teach you.Yes Learn from your mistakes and move forward .No one said building an empire was easy, so go out there and take risks. If you fail, accept it, learn from it, and move forward. At least you are trying ! Before you start beating yourself up, remember. Life is a series of lessons learned only through a series of mistakes. Our biggest missteps often lead us directly to our most powerful breakthroughs. You’re doing awesome guys ! Lets wind up with Pitbull and Michael Jordan’s words today :

Wise words from Pit bull. . .
No overnight success, just years and years of doing, learning and failing. .

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Devi Venkatesan

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Quote : Be A Tree

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Happy Morning friends 

The tree does not bother about flowers that fall.It is always busy making new flowers blossom.Life is not about what we lost so far,its about what we can still grow.

Learn from trees .

Never look back your past .

Keep going ! Keep moving forward !

Have a Wonderful Tuesday friends !

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Happy Monday !

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Happy Monday everyone !

Here’s some Monday Motivation..

Mondays are new beginning , new week , new goals , new hopes , new opportunities …

Lets welcome Mondays with great enthusiasm , positivity and good energy .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Be happy and thankful for Mondays , that you are alive one more day and got the opportunity to prove your best . Who know, this day may make you proud !

Consider it as another opportunity to begin a new journey of success .

Mondays gives us chance to start fresh and correct last week’s mistakes .

Remember , You are going to do amazing things this week .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Don’t forget to Sparkle More and Shine Bright today and everyday .

Wishing you all a very happy and productive new week !

All the very best !

Devi Venkatesan

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Be You ! Be Yourself !

Be You ! Be Yourself !

 

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when did you stop believing in yourself ? or when did you start to allow people to treat you like crap?
Who told you to do that?

I know this thing about you… It’s that you are extraordinary. There’s only one of you… That alone should be enough reason for you to understand just how beautiful and unique you really are…… just one! No one can replicate you.Always remember that you’re absolutely unique . Feel comfortable in your own skin.

When you show up Authentic, you create the space for others to do the same. 
Walk in your truth. Be you. Be your own light in this world.
It’s called Originality and the world needs that from you.

Never compare yourself with others.You’re different from  others . Don’t be afraid of being different Be afraid of being the same as everyone.

It’s so easy to fall into a trap of comparison.
Let me say this:
Comparison is the thief of joy, Don’t do it.  
No matter what.
It senseless and it’s not good for the human spirit.

You are Talented and Wonderfully made .. 
You are Loved, Beautiful, Talented and Amazing so why would you ever compare yourself to anybody else? 
Learn to Love yourself and all your imperfections .

You’re Blessed !

Let’s wind up with Steve Jobs words

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Your time is limited,so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. – Steve Jobs

Devi Venkatesan

 

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She Changed my life ! Beautiful Miracle ! #InternationalDayOfGirlChild

Hi Everyone !! Happy Morning

Today is International day of Girl child . (October 11th) Repost

Happy Girl’s Day to all !!

A Girl child is truly a blessing… How many of you agree?

I still remember the day when my little Lucky came in to my arms. How can I forget!? It was the most joyous day in my life.

I would love to share my experience about the birth of my little bundle of joy.

Yes, I am talking about my daughter Lucky. She is the joy in my life .

She is the Beautiful miracle in my life! Nothing can match the happiness of having a girl baby.

Childbirth is a natural and powerful wonder.

It was a beautiful day. We were surrounded by my family and friends I am talking about a labor of love.. I choose to give birth to my kid in a good hospital near by home. I was well prepared the previous day, packed all necessary things, couldn’t sleep well. I was little nervous about thinking of the next day. My dear husband was with me , encouraging me ,saying I was powerful, capable and I can do it. And a new day was dawn I know, “Today’s the Day”.

My Husband called the doctor and fixed appointment with the hospital and we started by 5am on Monday Morning and I brought my girl out of my body.. Lucky was born around 10.30 am on the same day It was a C-Sec.It was a very Beautiful moment in my life when I touched my baby for the very first time. I was in pain but my heart is filled with happiness and joy. It was truly a magical experience. A girl turned mom moment.

My husband and parents were happy to see this cute little girl.

I have always been a nature lover. I love to be surrounded by trees and plants I hate hospitals and its smell. I am little scared to take medicines.

Childbirth has taught me patience and confidence. It also taught me how our body works before and after childbirth and how to respond to it, to have a clearer birth plan, It prepared me mentally and physically to face it.

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Lesson to All ‘To-Be Moms’

Remember a big lesson to handle labor sufferings and pain

The pain is not your permanent state. This is just a interruption before your blissful moment.

Keep thinking this pain is temporary and you’re going to bring out a cute little human into this world. Your body is Amazing and you’re doing good.

I‘ve never felt such immense joy as I did when birthing my daughter.

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I would wind up this post by saying a Malala Yousafzai’s quote on this International Day Of Girl Child

“Let us pick up our books and our pens,They are our most powerful weapons.One child,one teacher,one book and one pen can change the world” .

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Happy Motherhood !

Happy Day of the girl !!

Devi Venkatesan

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10 Ways to be more Likeable

 

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10 Ways to be more Likeable

We all want to be liked by others, but few of us actually know how to be more likeable. Making yourself more appealing to others is a important social skill and it requires a good understanding of some key principles of human psychology to master.

1. Smile more… that’s not so hard now is it? Smiling is contagious. The more you smile the more your mood will be elevated. It will reduce your blood pressure and it’s actually considered to be a form of exercise. Just be happy and let that happiness transfer to others. Nobody likes a party pooper!

2. Use Positive body language.Positive body language can make all the difference in a conversation.Use an enthusiastic tone, maintain eye contact etc.

3. Give genuine compliments. Make people feel good and compliment them because you truly do have something nice to say. Not because it’s part of a script or messaging formula. Elaborate on the compliment if you can.

4. Know when to open – up. Be careful to avoid sharing personal problems and confessions too quickly, as this will get you labeled a complainer. Likeable people let the other person guide when it’s the right time for them to open up.

5. Remember peoples names. Yes, many say they are horrible at this, but that’s only because you allow yourself to be. Say someone’s name three times or over and over again in your head. Find a way to remember the name by relating it to someone or something that is familiar to you. 
Don’t be lazy and let your excuses kick in.

6. Have Integrity . Being genuine and honest is essential to being likeable. No one likes a fake person. 

7. First impression do matter so don’t blow it. People decide if they like you within a matter of seconds of meeting you. So be open, smile, show confidence, good body language, be friendly… it’s simple stuff. Don’t be a jerk and show some interest in the person you are meeting. You’ll be fine.

8. Shared Interests . When it comes to establishing a rapport with someone, look for ways to establish common ground through shared hobbies or interests. This is when having a variety of interests and a diverse background will come in handy.

9. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves so the more interested you are the more interested they are in talking to you. Ask real questions that help you get to know the person. Listen to listen. Don’t be thinking of the next question while they are talking, this isn’t an interview.

10. Put your hands up and step away from your phone! This is the biggest challenge for most people. When you are with your family, friends, meeting up with someone, face to face interacting with people your phone is a major distraction. It’s a great way to meet people when you are not around people. Put it away before you get the stink eye from someone.

If you want to show someone how uninterested you are in them, being on your phone will do the trick. There is a time and place for the phone, but when you’re around people you are looking to connect with, that is the wrong time. Practice being present!

Lets sum up. Likeable people are invaluable and unique. They network with ease, promote harmony in the workplace, bring out the best in everyone around them, and generally seem to have the most fun. 

Devi Venkatesan

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Take small steps everyday

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Today’s Lesson/Affirmation

Take small steps everyday

I love the below proverb

The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.” – Chinese Proverb

Today is the day to take that one small step in the right direction . Start there . Then Repeat.

The key to achieving our goals lies in the small steps we make each day.In life a long journey to a far of place  starts with a one small step forward . Great things starts with one small step. No progress if you don’t step forward . All successful person are successful today because they have taken that one first step forward some day in their lives . Keep moving everyday no matter how big or small the steps are .. just keep stepping … Small steps each day will lead you to bigger goals and dreams . Each and every big things have only very small beginnings .

“Take small steps everyday and one day you’ll get there”  – Unknown.

Remember , A big empire is not built in a day , It’s built everyday .

What are you waiting for guys ! Are you ready to take that small step today !?

…take it today and every day….  🙂

Wishing you all a very productive day !

Devi Venkatesan

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The Importance of Self-Love

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Self Love – Love Yourself

 Self-love is essential to our happiness, relationships and dreams, but it can be hard to know HOW to love yourself. I’ve put together a list of Lessons below to help you get started. 

If you are not going to cheer ‘you,’ who will? If you don’t love you, who will? Ask yourself these questions. 

 “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
– Lucille Ball

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 Lesson 1:

Mirror Mirror on the wall:

Start each day by telling yourself something really positive. What you tell yourself is who you are. People’s opinions of you do not matter. What is important is what you tell that person in the mirror each day, that ‘I am beautiful’, ’I am Intelligent’, Anything that will make you smile .Every great thing we celebrate started with a thought. What you focus on focuses on you.

 Lesson 2 :

Self-Examine:

Do some self-examination. Evaluate where you are in your life at the moment. Think of the mistakes you’ve made, experiences you’ve gone through. Remember the lessons learned from your mistakes and experiences.

 Lesson 3 :

Treat yourself well:

Treating your body well not only boost your self-love, but also your energy… Learn to love the skin you’re in. Be intentional about what you put into your body, not only because you want to look good but because you want to feel good.

 Lesson 4  :

Be Calm and Relax :

Take time out to calm your mind everyday . Self-love is all about connecting with yourself.Being calm and relax allows you to connect with yourself by not thinking about what bills need be paid,what’s due at work  etc. Release your negative emotional energy and re-establish inner calm and peace .Just embrace the moment.

 Lesson 5 :

Self-Compassion is important:

Be good to you.. Be kind to you. Self Kindness leads to a healthy and happier life. Being Kind to you helps you to bounce back and to live a happier life

 Lesson 6 :

 Create a fantastic Community:

Surround yourself with people who love and encourage you. Let them remind you just how amazing you are.

 Lesson 7 :

Unplug from social media:

Sit down for a few minutes on your own. No TV or distractions, just you. Think about the wonderful things that are happening in your life right now, what your big dreams are and how you can make that happen.

 Lesson 8 :

Make a ‘What’s working for you list’:

Make a list of what’s really working for you. Write it down in a paper and once you see it on paper and accept all of the positivity in your life, it will make it easier to love yourself. Go through it again and again when you feel down. Your blessings and positivity gives a fresh energy when you feel depressed.

 Lesson 9 :

Practice Self care:

Spend time for Self-pampering. Keep doing what makes you happy. It can be a facial, body massage, applying moisturizer, cooking, gardening, playing with kids, adventures, fun games, watching a movie and so on…Get enough sleep, do yoga, have good food and drink plenty of water.

 Lesson 10 :

Be thankful:

Be thankful for all your blessings and positivity in life. Embrace and love the thing that makes you different. It brings peace to your mind and soul. I Stop taking my mind and body for granted and relish how blessed I am .

 Lesson 11 :

Clean out your closet:

Getting rid of old things will make room for new things to come in to your life! Cleansing your mind can sometimes work in the form of letting go of clothes, shoes, jewelry, etc. that remind you of a certain time in your life that links to a negative vibration. Don’t chase what’s already happened; love yourself enough to know the best is yet to come.

 Lesson 12 :

No more Comparisons:

They is no one on the planet like you .Remember that you are perfect just the way you are; being in a pattern of compare and despair only makes you focus on the negative, when there’s SO much to be grateful for. The only person you should compare yourself to  is you.

 Lesson 13:

Self- Improvement:

You’ve got your own skills and talents. Remember that you’re unique, you have special unique talents within you which no one has. Embrace and love the things that make you different. You’re blessed differently. Learn to respect your uniqueness and find ways to improve your skills and talents. Try to improve yourself everyday. Be better than yesterday.

 Lesson 14:

Celebrate every day:

Celebrate your wins no matter how big or small. Pat yourself on the back and be proud of what you have achieved.

 Lesson 15 :

End all toxic relationship:

Seriously, Anyone who makes you feel anything less than amazing doesn’t deserve to be a part of your life.

 Lesson 16 :

Learn to Letgo:

We’re constantly holding on to things in our past, and it can tend to weigh heavy on our souls and even give us low self-esteem. The more blocks we clear, the more we can really live big in the area of self-love. Although we may do this as a way to protect ourselves from hurting, it’s really only holding us back from moving forward to reaching optimal self-acceptance and loving who we are.

 Lesson 17 :

Be your best version:

Often do something you are good at. Feel this is a self-esteem booster, Yes, no doubt .. This is! Get creative and express yourself in whatever way you like. Participate in a hobby or whatever you’re good at It can  be a craft,painting,music you do or love to cook then cook It’ll bring the best in you .Self-love and self-esteem go hand in hand.

 Lesson 18 :

Accept your flaws and celebrate your strengths:

Self-love does not mean dismissing your mistakes, no, it’s acknowledging them and making a deliberate choice to love you with all your flaws, insecurities, mistakes and choosing each day to do better, be better and ultimately live each day being you, doing you, fulfilling your purpose- what you were called to do on earth and ignoring the background noise. Stay focused, there are so many distractions in today’s world, don’t let it deter you from your goals and the amazing future that lies ahead of you.

If you love this post, be sure to leave a comment. What are your favorite self-care tips? I would love to know your thoughts. Make sure you follow on Facebook,Twitter and Instagram for motivational quotes, Personal development posts, life hacks and everything you need to be a better ‘you’ each day.

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