Strong is the new pretty !

Day 26 of 365

Hey Beautiful !

Strong is the new pretty . Be strong  . You have survived all bad days and I’m sure you will survive whatever is coming . Relax, It’s just a matter of time . Time heals everything . Trust yourself !

Just Remember, It’s just a bad day or bad past And not a bad life .

And I know. I know how difficult it is to move on, to heal. But I promise you — you are going to survive this. You are.
Little by little, a gentle light will begin to replace the darkness. Hope will override some of the shadows. You’ll start to enjoy being with your friends. You might even laugh. You won’t be so afraid of spending time alone, because you won’t be so scared of your own thoughts. You’ll start to trust yourself again, and trust your heart again.

And then you will begin to understand. You’ll playback the memories in your mind, and you’ll actually start to see some of the flaws and glitches, the moments when things were not right. You’ll see the messiness. You’ll begin to understand why all this happened .
You will mourn the loss and the absence of someone you once cared for, but you will finally understand that what happened was meant to happen. And little by little, you will begin to move on. You will know that you deserve more. You will finally know that something better awaits you.And you will finally learn that everything you need to be able to heal is already inside of you. The courage, the compassion, the bravery and the strength, are all within you. You will learn that being alone does not mean being lonely.
And once you know this, you will begin to heal.

And then, in time, the color will return to your world, and the sparkle will return to your eyes. ❤
And then, in time, you will heal.

Friends ,

Know this , You’re Sexy , Sassy and Strong !

Yes believe me , Sexy Sassy and Strong . No one can break you . The current situation will change and you are the change . Everything happens for a reason . Nothing is permanent and so far you have survived all worst days  . This too shall pass .. Look back your past to only recollect the lessons it taught you . Better things are on its way ! Keep Going !

I’m glad to wind up this post with a good message and loads of love,hugs and positive vibes to all those who need . ❤ ❤ ❤

Forgot to mention , Sending colorful beautiful flowers to all of you ❤

 

Love & Peace , Devi ❤

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You Are Fortunate, You Are Lucky, You Are Blessed

Feel that you are fortunate , Lucky and blessed !

Do not go to bed thinking of all the things you need to do tomorrow or during this busy holiday season — Don’t stay up all night laboring over the things that are pressing and stressing. Instead, labor over the things you’re SO 🙏 grateful for.

✏️ Write down your list of things to do tomorrow. Flush it from your mind once it’s written down. Then, flush your “to do list” from your mind by replacing it with gratitude.

As you lay down for the night, take just FIVE minutes and THINK about the things you’re 🙏 grateful for. The roof over your head. Running water that is clean. The pillow under your head. Clean clothes to wear. Your health. Your family’s safety. Be grateful for what you DO have.

Even if you have to DIG down REALLY deep to find the things that are going RIGHT… find them. Hang on to them. Dwell on them. Thank GOD for them.

Going to bed feeling grateful for what you have will put you into a place of peace and help you sleep better, too! ❤️

Love Always , Devi Venkatesan

Life Is Tough But So Are You !

 

Sometimes your circle decreases in size but increases in quality & value. ⭐️⭐️ Surround yourself with those that already have what you want, those who inspire you to be better & do better, the people who want to see you grow! Complainers are success drainers. Life is tough but so are you! Take pride in being tough! 💪🏼

 Have a positive outlook on every situation. It’s YOUR time to shine! ✨

Devi Venkatesan

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Not Everyone You Lose Is A Loss.

People may come and go it means their part in your story is over . Remember, Not everyone you lose is a loss. Many people may come and leave, and it is always good because they empty some space for better people. Nobody is worth stressing over..Just move on . Life goes on ..

Devi Venkatesan

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Inspiration from Beautiful Celebrities

Hi Beautiful Ladies,

Happy Super Saturday !!

Here’s some amazing inspirational quotes/LifeLessons from some of the most beautiful women (actors) across  the globe. Hope these quotes will motivate you .

It adds value when a public personality says something inspiring ..

I am sure these quotes will inspire all women who reads it .Below are some of my favorite big screen personalities . They are beautiful,strong,courageous and inspiring .

I love love word by word ..

When people walk away from you,let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn’t mean they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over – Julia Roberts

Nothing lasts forever,so live it up,drink it down,laugh it off,avoid the bullshit,take chances and never have regrets,because at one point everything you did was exactly what you wanted . – Marilyn Monroe

It’s very important to follow your heart – Deepika Padukone

 

There is no greater pillar of stability than a strong,free and educated woman. And there is no more inspiring role model than a man who respects and cherishes women and champions their leadership. – Angelina Jolie

Look above what the most beautiful and intelligent Aishwarya Rai says..

“We are the change that we seek Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time” – Bipasha Basu

Don’t let your wounds make you become someone you’re not . – Demi Moore

I think what you achieve in your life is the result of your own talent and hard work . – Deepika Padukone

 

The older you get ,the more fragile you understand life to be. I think that’s a good motivation for getting of bed joyfully each day – Julia Roberts

“So keep your head high,keep your chin up, and most importantly,keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.” – Marilyn Monroe

“You know, I’ve got wrinkles on my forehead and smile lines,but what’s wrong with that? I love to smile.” – Jennifer Aniston

“Some people are naturally thin,and some are heavier.There is a lot of focus on it,and it can be a lot of pressure for people.But honestly,I think as long as someone is healthy,that is most important . ” – Jennifer Lopez

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Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You .

Hi Good Morning/Evening Everyone !

Happy Friday ! Today’s Quote

Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You . – Devi Venkatesan

When you FOCUS on you and INVEST in you, there is no competition because no one else has your story and your journey…

Have a wonderful day !

Devi Venkatesan

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5 Hater quotes to Motivate you

Hi Everyone ! Good Morning / Evening

Here’s five quotes about hates which will motivate you to move forward .Haters don’t really hate, they hate themselves because you are a reflection of what they wish to be.

Not everyone likes me .. but not everyone matters .

“Haters are my favorite. I’ve built an empire with the bricks they’ve thrown at me. Keep on hating.”– C.M. Punk

“You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”– Shannon L. Alder

“Some people have so little going on in their lives, they would rather discuss yours.”– Unknown

“Wish all your enemies a long life, so they can see you succeed in life.”– Nishan Panwar

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Devi Venkatesan

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Look for good in everything

Good Morning/Evening everyone ! Today’s Quote ..

“Train your mind and heart to see the good in everything. There is always something to be grateful for.” 
— Unknown Author

Finding the positive qualities in other people is an important part of your personal development. As you get better at finding the positive aspects of other people, you become more proficient at finding the positive aspects of yourself. 

I’ve  learnt to remind myself that I don’t know the other persons full story. I recently came across the saying “Don’t judge my story based on the chapter you happened to walk in on.” Even when you know someone well, you can’t assume to know what’s going on in their head or heart or life – at any given point in time.

I also find that if I am bothered by someone’s behavior, realizing that it’s probably not directed at me, but rather an expression of how they’re feeling at that point of time, helps me to see the situation from a more objective standpoint.

Seeing the good in other people is a challenging pursuit.Basic social skills like smiling and maintaining eye contact will help.Start noticing only positive intentions underlying peoples’ actions and forgive them for these actions.

When you look for the beauty in every person and situation, life becomes so much better. When you can see the good in everything, you will be genuinely happy and enjoy life so much more

How do you look for good in others ? Let’s get the conversation going in the comment section.

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Hustle

Today’s word is Hustle.

Ridiculously awesome  things come to those who hustle.

I love this quote from Muhammad Ali

“Never Lose Sight Of The Goal. Always Remember Why You Hustle”

Don’t just dream for it Instead hustle for it . If you want to be successful in your future don’t hesitate to hustle now. Keep on hustling because there is no shortcuts.

Do you know ?! It’s easy to stand with the crowd but difficult to shine apart . Be a hustler who  learns from his mistakes and tries to improve every single day.

Hustle in the silence . Let your success makes the noise .

5 ways to motivate you to hustle harder

Lesson 1 : Surround yourself with positive people.

Lesson 2 : Avoid negative people and situations .

Lesson 3 : Write down your goals and focus on it .

Lesson 4 : Also write down what stops you from hustle harder and try  to solve those issues.

Lesson 5 : Remember why you started . It will drive you to focus and hustle more .

Lesson 6 : Keep learning things which will help you while hustling to achieve your goals.

Check below for my favorite hustle quotes

I will wind up with Abraham Lincoln’s quote

“Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle”.

Hustle Harder guys ! All the very best !!

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You are not a tree..MOVE

Hey Guys, Good Morning !

Happy Friday ! Today’s quote

If you don’t like where you are move you’re not a tree.Many people in this world spend their time being unhappy, complaining about where they are or where their life is headed without making any effort to change things or make the situation better. If you are unhappy where you are then you have the ability to move, shaking things up and changing your situation so that it is better than before. You are not a tree, you have not put down permanent roots that anchor you in place. You can move and change your location, as well as your situation, without too much trouble and effort. People have been changing their locations and migrating towards a better life for thousands of years and this is still a possibility today. You can stay where you are and stay unhappy with your circumstances or you can move and possibly change things for the better.

If you do not like your current location then moving could solve your problems and help you find greater happiness. Whether you are hoping to find a better neighborhood, more friends, a job that offers better pay or benefits, or just a change of scenery and a different pace then relocating could offer this to you. There are many places where you might be happier and have a life that is more fulfilling but you have to take the first step and make a move if you want things to change. Don’t be one of those people who are always complaining about where they live or how their life is turning out without ever trying to change things or make their situation better.

Devi Venkatesan

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Fail Forward !

Today’s Life lesson

Hi friends, Good Morning !

Do you know what is mean by fail forward ? Failure ?

Failure is stepping stone to success.Failure is not the opposite of success It’s a part of success .

Quote : ” Even if you are on the right track You’ll get run over if you just sit there” – Unknown

Standing still has never helped anyone get anywhere. Keep failing forward!

Failure is a necessary part of progress! Fail forward and never give up! It’s all part of the learning process! It’s better to try and fall than to never try at all.It’s not how we fall It’s how we get back up.If you’re not failing, you’re not growing!!

You can’t let your failure define you .. You have to let your failure teach you.Yes Learn from your mistakes and move forward .No one said building an empire was easy, so go out there and take risks. If you fail, accept it, learn from it, and move forward. At least you are trying ! Before you start beating yourself up, remember. Life is a series of lessons learned only through a series of mistakes. Our biggest missteps often lead us directly to our most powerful breakthroughs. You’re doing awesome guys ! Lets wind up with Pitbull and Michael Jordan’s words today :

Wise words from Pit bull. . .
No overnight success, just years and years of doing, learning and failing. .

Devi Venkatesan

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10 Ways to be more Likeable

 

10 Ways to be more Likeable

We all want to be liked by others, but few of us actually know how to be more likeable. Making yourself more appealing to others is a important social skill and it requires a good understanding of some key principles of human psychology to master.

1. Smile more… that’s not so hard now is it? Smiling is contagious. The more you smile the more your mood will be elevated. It will reduce your blood pressure and it’s actually considered to be a form of exercise. Just be happy and let that happiness transfer to others. Nobody likes a party pooper!

2. Use Positive body language.Positive body language can make all the difference in a conversation.Use an enthusiastic tone, maintain eye contact etc.

3. Give genuine compliments. Make people feel good and compliment them because you truly do have something nice to say. Not because it’s part of a script or messaging formula. Elaborate on the compliment if you can.

4. Know when to open – up. Be careful to avoid sharing personal problems and confessions too quickly, as this will get you labeled a complainer. Likeable people let the other person guide when it’s the right time for them to open up.

5. Remember peoples names. Yes, many say they are horrible at this, but that’s only because you allow yourself to be. Say someone’s name three times or over and over again in your head. Find a way to remember the name by relating it to someone or something that is familiar to you. 
Don’t be lazy and let your excuses kick in.

6. Have Integrity . Being genuine and honest is essential to being likeable. No one likes a fake person. 

7. First impression do matter so don’t blow it. People decide if they like you within a matter of seconds of meeting you. So be open, smile, show confidence, good body language, be friendly… it’s simple stuff. Don’t be a jerk and show some interest in the person you are meeting. You’ll be fine.

8. Shared Interests . When it comes to establishing a rapport with someone, look for ways to establish common ground through shared hobbies or interests. This is when having a variety of interests and a diverse background will come in handy.

9. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves so the more interested you are the more interested they are in talking to you. Ask real questions that help you get to know the person. Listen to listen. Don’t be thinking of the next question while they are talking, this isn’t an interview.

10. Put your hands up and step away from your phone! This is the biggest challenge for most people. When you are with your family, friends, meeting up with someone, face to face interacting with people your phone is a major distraction. It’s a great way to meet people when you are not around people. Put it away before you get the stink eye from someone.

If you want to show someone how uninterested you are in them, being on your phone will do the trick. There is a time and place for the phone, but when you’re around people you are looking to connect with, that is the wrong time. Practice being present!

Lets sum up. Likeable people are invaluable and unique. They network with ease, promote harmony in the workplace, bring out the best in everyone around them, and generally seem to have the most fun. 

Devi Venkatesan

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Take small steps everyday

Today’s Lesson/Affirmation

Take small steps everyday

I love the below proverb

“The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.” – Chinese Proverb

Today is the day to take that one small step in the right direction . Start there . Then Repeat.

The key to achieving our goals lies in the small steps we make each day.In life a long journey to a far of place  starts with a one small step forward . Great things starts with one small step. No progress if you don’t step forward . All successful person are successful today because they have taken that one first step forward some day in their lives . Keep moving everyday no matter how big or small the steps are .. just keep stepping … Small steps each day will lead you to bigger goals and dreams . Each and every big things have only very small beginnings .

“Take small steps everyday and one day you’ll get there”  – Unknown.

Remember , A big empire is not built in a day , It’s built everyday .

What are you waiting for guys ! Are you ready to take that small step today !?

…take it today and every day….  🙂

Wishing you all a very productive day !

Devi Venkatesan

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