No Rain No Flowers

Happy Morning Everyone !

Dear Mamas , How are you all ? Are you struggling in life ? Are you finding any hardship ? Is your day bad ?

To whoever’s reading this,you may be struggling right now,but hold on,don’t give up!! Your current situation,is not your final destination.. You are not in a storm you are in a transition.I think that sometimes when things don’t always go as  planned or how we may want them to go I feel that facing obstacles only makes us stronger.. That we’re able to grow & learn through the darker / rainy days, so I just wanted to share this quote as it really spoke to me in a deeper way, helped me through today & also expresses my sunshine state of mind. When the going gets tough just remember, no rain, no flowers .Especially as an entrepreneur, but in ALL areas in life… setbacks equal a learning opportunity, not failure. .

No Rain No Flowers

No Rain No Rainbows

No mud. No lotus.

No pain. No gain.

No practice. No outcome

Truth is, all of us will go through hardship, to varying degrees, at some point in our lives. History tells us that majority of the the greatest personalities all went through hardship on their way to legitimate success. Without that rain no flower will grow.

Here is a reminder to all my Women Entrepreneur friends,”

With struggles and challenges, there comes successes and accomplishments. Without failure we wouldn’t learn as much and success wouldn’t taste as good .Without hardship in our past we wouldn’t be able to inspire, help and empower people who are going through the same thing we did. Keep Moving ”

Understand one thing clearly,

“There is not a great victory, without a painful battle…” Without tough times you’d never appreciate the good! Life is a mix of high and lows, valley and mountains, sunny days and storm and that what makes it gorgeous!  Without the hard parts we wouldn’t be able to enjoy the beautiful parts as much.A good reminder for those not so perfect days. We all have them. There is no way of living life with a happiness filter but you must choose happiness every day. Some days are harder than others, but I needed this reminder today. Learn to shine with or without the sun. Either way, you’ll be just fine. Life doesn’t always go the way you plan it. There will be ups. There will be downs. But despite what it may currently look like; remember that all things are in purpose, on purpose! If you’re currently going through a season where life doesn’t seem to be going your way. I’d like to remind you that in order for the flowers to blossom, they must first withstand the rain. It’s the seasons where life seems to just be pouring down on us, where the most beauty comes from. Don’t run away from rain! On the contrary, embrace it! When the storms pass, you’ll see it was all worth it. Until that day comes, just remember – No Rain, No Flowers! pour down and I’ll bloom. . You have to go through your storm in order to grow stronger, more beautiful. I’ve had lots of rainy days and I’ve had days full of flowers, sunshine and great days. Even a bad day have 24 hours. So I know better than anyone it won’t rain forever and I’ll see the flowers again.

It’s not easy to see the positive when we are in the midst of a storm, but there is also a positive side and the storm never lasts!

Learn to embrace the storms in your life

Love Always , Devi

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The Time is NOW 2017

Hi Everyone !

Hope you all had a fantastic celebrations !

We had great Christmas eve.. On this Christmas day I realized , Happiness is all about giving and NOT getting .  This time of the year is the perfect opportunity, to reflect on what we have been through and where we want to go next. Even amidst the chaos we can switch off every now and again to connect with our souls . Cherish the good memories and learn from the bad experiences .

Remember , 8 important things this holidays .

1. Spend quality time with family and friends .

2. Unplug and Relax .

3. Learn to Give .

4. Eat Healthy . (This is the season to be careful in eating .. Think of all those efforts you took in 2017 🙂 #diet #workout ) 

5. Thank and Think God . (Be #grateful Show #gratitude )

6. Appreciate small things . #enjoylittlethings  #smalljoy

7.Remember , the blessings and lessons of 2017 .

8. Don’t forget to have Fun .  🙂 .

Friends , we have a whole new year ahead of us – a fresh book with empty pages ready to be filled with a new chapter.
Let’s make it a good one.
Let’s fill it with stories our loved ones will tell for generations to come.

 

Much love.

Devi Venkatesan XOXO

18 things Motherhood has taught me

What Motherhood has taught me ?

The Journey from Womanhood to Motherhood changes you . Some of the changes are sudden and some happen so gradually that you barely recognize them.It’s hard to believe that I’ve been a parent for almost 10 years now, and I know I still have a lot of learning left to do . Some days are pretty smooth sailing , other days are a total and complete three-ring circus . I love my parental role , but motherhood is one of the hardest jobs I have experienced.

Today I want to tell you what motherhood has taught me . These things might not work for you . But these are the truths that I’ve accepted . Motherhood is the ultimate test of patience , perseverance , and selflessness , all of which I fall short of daily .

Below are the 18 things that motherhood has taught me.

1.Gained more Respect for my Parents : I have gained more respect for my parents . It’s not easy to raise  children . It is the most difficult job . My Mother taught me all that I should posses to become a good human . I’ve gained a whole new level of understanding and love for her.

2. Fast Lunch : I have learnt to have a cup of coffee  in few seconds. I’m a slow eater who used to taste food spoon by spoon . I used to enjoy eating . After my daughter was born I’ve learned to eat fast in few seconds.

3. No plans will work out : Nothing is ever going to go the way you planned it or imagined it . Just let it happen.

4 . Family Dinner : Motherhood taught me the importance of family dinners and holiday traditions .

5 . The best things in life are free : I always thought the defining moments were all big ones like buying a house,landing a good job and so on . Motherhood has taught me that the most joy can be found in everyday moment.. Little things brings big joy . According to me my daughter’s smile,laughter,cuddle,a kiss , a sound night sleep , enjoying a cup of coffee in perfect temperature , a lazy days shower ,and lot more are the best things in life and they are free .

6 .To Appreciate ‘Me-Time’ : Some days you will want to be shower in peace, pee in peace and you will want to be able to sleep uninterrupted . You will need a break . Take care of you so you can take care of kids .

7 . Mess is unavoidable . Roll with it : I hate disorder , it stresses me out . But as a Mom , living in chaos is the norm . Mess always surrounds me and I’ve learned to accept that there will always be some mess somewhere calling out for my attention.

8 . Time Flies : My mother used to tell me I grew up in a blink . I’ve learned that my parents truly weren’t kidding,your children are only children for such a short time,so enjoy every second .

9. Responsibility : As a mother you are more responsible to raise good humans . The world is in the hands of next generation . I’ve learnt to teach them good habits and disciplines .

10. Who I really am : Motherhood has taught me , my real strengths and weaknesses . It showed me so many things I could do for my kids beyond limits . And the truth is I was not like that before . It changed me . Like others , I did some parenting mistakes too and I am learning from my mistakes to become a good Mother.

11.Flexibility and Patience are essential : Children are such unpredictable little things,they will throw a wrench into the best laid plans .Not to mention illness,accidents,tantrums and hours spent hunting for lost items. I’ve always had somewhat of a rigid personality,when things don’t go as planned,I become uneasy (just ask my husband )I have learned to re-plan and adjust our priorities now .Motherhood has trained me to take on a more flexible attitude and developed patience in me .

12. Mothers love is unique : Motherhood has taught me how powerful a mothers love for her children can be .

13. Busy has a whole new meaning : I’m super busy now . Getting quick shower or cooking my favorite dish while my baby plays in her room or going to super market alone class as ‘me time’ .

14. Let your children go. Let them climb on their own and let them fall. Pick them up and kiss them when they fall and teach them to shake it off. Don’t hover, don’t overdo it. Let them fail and recover gracefully. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give them. Falling will teach them to fly .

15. There is no such thing as a perfect parent . Learning parenting each and every day .

16. Sleep is a beautiful thing : I realize , Wasted lots of nights on social media but now .. Sleep, I love you and I miss you . Hope all of will agree this point for sure 🙂

17.Going to the bathroom alone is a privilege, not a right. To all my girlfriends without children- it’s weird, I know. Just enjoy the silence, and privacy, while you can.

18. Never stop taking pictures : Motherhood has taught me Pictures are memories captured and with how fast your kids grow you are going to want to have plenty of memories to look back on , and maybe embarrass them with,later on . 🙂

We all learn hundreds of new things every day from motherhood. The lessons can be fun , harsh and crazy .

What have you learnt since becoming a Mother ?

Happy Parenting !

Love Always , Devi

 

 

 

 

 

Life Is Tough But So Are You !

 

Sometimes your circle decreases in size but increases in quality & value. ⭐️⭐️ Surround yourself with those that already have what you want, those who inspire you to be better & do better, the people who want to see you grow! Complainers are success drainers. Life is tough but so are you! Take pride in being tough! 💪🏼

 Have a positive outlook on every situation. It’s YOUR time to shine! ✨

Devi Venkatesan

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I was made for this.

It doesn’t matter how much money you make.

Sometimes you want to quit.

It gets hard. It’s stressful. You wonder why you stick it out.

It happens to all of us.

It happens to me

Not often. But it does.

Then I remember why I  started , why I LOVE what I get to do with my life. I remember the things I was created for.

And I am so damn grateful for every one who told me no. Everyone who yelled . Every hater. Every skeptic. Every team member along the way who has touched my life. Every client I get to help.

I was made for this 😍

Don’t Quit. Never give up . Find a way !

Devi Venkatesan

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No More Excuses

Hi My Dear People , Happy Morning / Evening

Here’s today’s Life Tip / Life Lesson

Do you know?!

Excuses don’t make bank deposits .

Excuses don’t give results. You will find greatness when you lose excuses .

If you aren’t willing to work for it Don’t worry about not to having it .

Work for Greatness

Work for results

Go Get It !

Hope this will be of some motivation for you to start your day . Please comment below about your day . Have a productive day ! Wish you all success today !!

Devi Venkatesan

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Inspiration from Beautiful Celebrities

Hi Beautiful Ladies,

Happy Super Saturday !!

Here’s some amazing inspirational quotes/LifeLessons from some of the most beautiful women (actors) across  the globe. Hope these quotes will motivate you .

It adds value when a public personality says something inspiring ..

I am sure these quotes will inspire all women who reads it .Below are some of my favorite big screen personalities . They are beautiful,strong,courageous and inspiring .

I love love word by word ..

When people walk away from you,let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn’t mean they are bad people. It just means that their part in your story is over – Julia Roberts

Nothing lasts forever,so live it up,drink it down,laugh it off,avoid the bullshit,take chances and never have regrets,because at one point everything you did was exactly what you wanted . – Marilyn Monroe

It’s very important to follow your heart – Deepika Padukone

 

There is no greater pillar of stability than a strong,free and educated woman. And there is no more inspiring role model than a man who respects and cherishes women and champions their leadership. – Angelina Jolie

Look above what the most beautiful and intelligent Aishwarya Rai says..

“We are the change that we seek Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time” – Bipasha Basu

Don’t let your wounds make you become someone you’re not . – Demi Moore

I think what you achieve in your life is the result of your own talent and hard work . – Deepika Padukone

 

The older you get ,the more fragile you understand life to be. I think that’s a good motivation for getting of bed joyfully each day – Julia Roberts

“So keep your head high,keep your chin up, and most importantly,keep smiling, because life’s a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.” – Marilyn Monroe

“You know, I’ve got wrinkles on my forehead and smile lines,but what’s wrong with that? I love to smile.” – Jennifer Aniston

“Some people are naturally thin,and some are heavier.There is a lot of focus on it,and it can be a lot of pressure for people.But honestly,I think as long as someone is healthy,that is most important . ” – Jennifer Lopez

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Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You .

Hi Good Morning/Evening Everyone !

Happy Friday ! Today’s Quote

Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You . – Devi Venkatesan

When you FOCUS on you and INVEST in you, there is no competition because no one else has your story and your journey…

Have a wonderful day !

Devi Venkatesan

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5 Hater quotes to Motivate you

Hi Everyone ! Good Morning / Evening

Here’s five quotes about hates which will motivate you to move forward .Haters don’t really hate, they hate themselves because you are a reflection of what they wish to be.

Not everyone likes me .. but not everyone matters .

“Haters are my favorite. I’ve built an empire with the bricks they’ve thrown at me. Keep on hating.”– C.M. Punk

“You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”– Shannon L. Alder

“Some people have so little going on in their lives, they would rather discuss yours.”– Unknown

“Wish all your enemies a long life, so they can see you succeed in life.”– Nishan Panwar

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Devi Venkatesan

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Look for good in everything

Good Morning/Evening everyone ! Today’s Quote ..

“Train your mind and heart to see the good in everything. There is always something to be grateful for.” 
— Unknown Author

Finding the positive qualities in other people is an important part of your personal development. As you get better at finding the positive aspects of other people, you become more proficient at finding the positive aspects of yourself. 

I’ve  learnt to remind myself that I don’t know the other persons full story. I recently came across the saying “Don’t judge my story based on the chapter you happened to walk in on.” Even when you know someone well, you can’t assume to know what’s going on in their head or heart or life – at any given point in time.

I also find that if I am bothered by someone’s behavior, realizing that it’s probably not directed at me, but rather an expression of how they’re feeling at that point of time, helps me to see the situation from a more objective standpoint.

Seeing the good in other people is a challenging pursuit.Basic social skills like smiling and maintaining eye contact will help.Start noticing only positive intentions underlying peoples’ actions and forgive them for these actions.

When you look for the beauty in every person and situation, life becomes so much better. When you can see the good in everything, you will be genuinely happy and enjoy life so much more

How do you look for good in others ? Let’s get the conversation going in the comment section.

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Devi Venkatesan

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Hustle

Today’s word is Hustle.

Ridiculously awesome  things come to those who hustle.

I love this quote from Muhammad Ali

“Never Lose Sight Of The Goal. Always Remember Why You Hustle”

Don’t just dream for it Instead hustle for it . If you want to be successful in your future don’t hesitate to hustle now. Keep on hustling because there is no shortcuts.

Do you know ?! It’s easy to stand with the crowd but difficult to shine apart . Be a hustler who  learns from his mistakes and tries to improve every single day.

Hustle in the silence . Let your success makes the noise .

5 ways to motivate you to hustle harder

Lesson 1 : Surround yourself with positive people.

Lesson 2 : Avoid negative people and situations .

Lesson 3 : Write down your goals and focus on it .

Lesson 4 : Also write down what stops you from hustle harder and try  to solve those issues.

Lesson 5 : Remember why you started . It will drive you to focus and hustle more .

Lesson 6 : Keep learning things which will help you while hustling to achieve your goals.

Check below for my favorite hustle quotes

I will wind up with Abraham Lincoln’s quote

“Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle”.

Hustle Harder guys ! All the very best !!

More to come .. Stay tuned..

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You are not a tree..MOVE

Hey Guys, Good Morning !

Happy Friday ! Today’s quote

If you don’t like where you are move you’re not a tree.Many people in this world spend their time being unhappy, complaining about where they are or where their life is headed without making any effort to change things or make the situation better. If you are unhappy where you are then you have the ability to move, shaking things up and changing your situation so that it is better than before. You are not a tree, you have not put down permanent roots that anchor you in place. You can move and change your location, as well as your situation, without too much trouble and effort. People have been changing their locations and migrating towards a better life for thousands of years and this is still a possibility today. You can stay where you are and stay unhappy with your circumstances or you can move and possibly change things for the better.

If you do not like your current location then moving could solve your problems and help you find greater happiness. Whether you are hoping to find a better neighborhood, more friends, a job that offers better pay or benefits, or just a change of scenery and a different pace then relocating could offer this to you. There are many places where you might be happier and have a life that is more fulfilling but you have to take the first step and make a move if you want things to change. Don’t be one of those people who are always complaining about where they live or how their life is turning out without ever trying to change things or make their situation better.

Devi Venkatesan

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Fail Forward !

Today’s Life lesson

Hi friends, Good Morning !

Do you know what is mean by fail forward ? Failure ?

Failure is stepping stone to success.Failure is not the opposite of success It’s a part of success .

Quote : ” Even if you are on the right track You’ll get run over if you just sit there” – Unknown

Standing still has never helped anyone get anywhere. Keep failing forward!

Failure is a necessary part of progress! Fail forward and never give up! It’s all part of the learning process! It’s better to try and fall than to never try at all.It’s not how we fall It’s how we get back up.If you’re not failing, you’re not growing!!

You can’t let your failure define you .. You have to let your failure teach you.Yes Learn from your mistakes and move forward .No one said building an empire was easy, so go out there and take risks. If you fail, accept it, learn from it, and move forward. At least you are trying ! Before you start beating yourself up, remember. Life is a series of lessons learned only through a series of mistakes. Our biggest missteps often lead us directly to our most powerful breakthroughs. You’re doing awesome guys ! Lets wind up with Pitbull and Michael Jordan’s words today :

Wise words from Pit bull. . .
No overnight success, just years and years of doing, learning and failing. .

Devi Venkatesan

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Quote : Be A Tree

Happy Morning friends 

The tree does not bother about flowers that fall.It is always busy making new flowers blossom.Life is not about what we lost so far,its about what we can still grow.

Learn from trees .

Never look back your past .

Keep going ! Keep moving forward !

Have a Wonderful Tuesday friends !

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Happy Monday !

 

Happy Monday everyone !

Here’s some Monday Motivation..

Mondays are new beginning , new week , new goals , new hopes , new opportunities …

Lets welcome Mondays with great enthusiasm , positivity and good energy .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Be happy and thankful for Mondays , that you are alive one more day and got the opportunity to prove your best . Who know, this day may make you proud !

Consider it as another opportunity to begin a new journey of success .

Mondays gives us chance to start fresh and correct last week’s mistakes .

Remember , You are going to do amazing things this week .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Don’t forget to Sparkle More and Shine Bright today and everyday .

Wishing you all a very happy and productive new week !

All the very best !

Devi Venkatesan

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Be You ! Be Yourself !

Be You ! Be Yourself !

 

when did you stop believing in yourself ? or when did you start to allow people to treat you like crap?
Who told you to do that?

I know this thing about you… It’s that you are extraordinary. There’s only one of you… That alone should be enough reason for you to understand just how beautiful and unique you really are…… just one! No one can replicate you.Always remember that you’re absolutely unique . Feel comfortable in your own skin.

When you show up Authentic, you create the space for others to do the same. 
Walk in your truth. Be you. Be your own light in this world.
It’s called Originality and the world needs that from you.

Never compare yourself with others.You’re different from  others . Don’t be afraid of being different Be afraid of being the same as everyone.

It’s so easy to fall into a trap of comparison.
Let me say this:
Comparison is the thief of joy, Don’t do it.  
No matter what.
It senseless and it’s not good for the human spirit.

You are Talented and Wonderfully made .. 
You are Loved, Beautiful, Talented and Amazing so why would you ever compare yourself to anybody else? 
Learn to Love yourself and all your imperfections .

You’re Blessed !

Let’s wind up with Steve Jobs words

Your time is limited,so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. – Steve Jobs

Devi Venkatesan

 

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She Changed my life ! Beautiful Miracle ! #InternationalDayOfGirlChild

Hi Everyone !! Happy Morning

Today is International day of Girl child . (October 11th) Repost

Happy Girl’s Day to all !!

A Girl child is truly a blessing… How many of you agree?

I still remember the day when my little Lucky came in to my arms. How can I forget!? It was the most joyous day in my life.

I would love to share my experience about the birth of my little bundle of joy.

Yes, I am talking about my daughter Lucky. She is the joy in my life .

She is the Beautiful miracle in my life! Nothing can match the happiness of having a girl baby.

Childbirth is a natural and powerful wonder.

It was a beautiful day. We were surrounded by my family and friends I am talking about a labor of love.. I choose to give birth to my kid in a good hospital near by home. I was well prepared the previous day, packed all necessary things, couldn’t sleep well. I was little nervous about thinking of the next day. My dear husband was with me , encouraging me ,saying I was powerful, capable and I can do it. And a new day was dawn I know, “Today’s the Day”.

My Husband called the doctor and fixed appointment with the hospital and we started by 5am on Monday Morning and I brought my girl out of my body.. Lucky was born around 10.30 am on the same day It was a C-Sec.It was a very Beautiful moment in my life when I touched my baby for the very first time. I was in pain but my heart is filled with happiness and joy. It was truly a magical experience. A girl turned mom moment.

My husband and parents were happy to see this cute little girl.

I have always been a nature lover. I love to be surrounded by trees and plants I hate hospitals and its smell. I am little scared to take medicines.

Childbirth has taught me patience and confidence. It also taught me how our body works before and after childbirth and how to respond to it, to have a clearer birth plan, It prepared me mentally and physically to face it.

Lesson to All ‘To-Be Moms’

Remember a big lesson to handle labor sufferings and pain

The pain is not your permanent state. This is just a interruption before your blissful moment.

Keep thinking this pain is temporary and you’re going to bring out a cute little human into this world. Your body is Amazing and you’re doing good.

I‘ve never felt such immense joy as I did when birthing my daughter.

I would wind up this post by saying a Malala Yousafzai’s quote on this International Day Of Girl Child

“Let us pick up our books and our pens,They are our most powerful weapons.One child,one teacher,one book and one pen can change the world” .

#InternationalDayOfGirlchild #DayOfTheGirl  #October11 #Sheiisthemiracle #Shecandoanything #celebrateher #Empower #Educateher

Happy Motherhood !

Happy Day of the girl !!

Devi Venkatesan

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10 Ways to be more Likeable

 

10 Ways to be more Likeable

We all want to be liked by others, but few of us actually know how to be more likeable. Making yourself more appealing to others is a important social skill and it requires a good understanding of some key principles of human psychology to master.

1. Smile more… that’s not so hard now is it? Smiling is contagious. The more you smile the more your mood will be elevated. It will reduce your blood pressure and it’s actually considered to be a form of exercise. Just be happy and let that happiness transfer to others. Nobody likes a party pooper!

2. Use Positive body language.Positive body language can make all the difference in a conversation.Use an enthusiastic tone, maintain eye contact etc.

3. Give genuine compliments. Make people feel good and compliment them because you truly do have something nice to say. Not because it’s part of a script or messaging formula. Elaborate on the compliment if you can.

4. Know when to open – up. Be careful to avoid sharing personal problems and confessions too quickly, as this will get you labeled a complainer. Likeable people let the other person guide when it’s the right time for them to open up.

5. Remember peoples names. Yes, many say they are horrible at this, but that’s only because you allow yourself to be. Say someone’s name three times or over and over again in your head. Find a way to remember the name by relating it to someone or something that is familiar to you. 
Don’t be lazy and let your excuses kick in.

6. Have Integrity . Being genuine and honest is essential to being likeable. No one likes a fake person. 

7. First impression do matter so don’t blow it. People decide if they like you within a matter of seconds of meeting you. So be open, smile, show confidence, good body language, be friendly… it’s simple stuff. Don’t be a jerk and show some interest in the person you are meeting. You’ll be fine.

8. Shared Interests . When it comes to establishing a rapport with someone, look for ways to establish common ground through shared hobbies or interests. This is when having a variety of interests and a diverse background will come in handy.

9. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves so the more interested you are the more interested they are in talking to you. Ask real questions that help you get to know the person. Listen to listen. Don’t be thinking of the next question while they are talking, this isn’t an interview.

10. Put your hands up and step away from your phone! This is the biggest challenge for most people. When you are with your family, friends, meeting up with someone, face to face interacting with people your phone is a major distraction. It’s a great way to meet people when you are not around people. Put it away before you get the stink eye from someone.

If you want to show someone how uninterested you are in them, being on your phone will do the trick. There is a time and place for the phone, but when you’re around people you are looking to connect with, that is the wrong time. Practice being present!

Lets sum up. Likeable people are invaluable and unique. They network with ease, promote harmony in the workplace, bring out the best in everyone around them, and generally seem to have the most fun. 

Devi Venkatesan

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Take small steps everyday

Today’s Lesson/Affirmation

Take small steps everyday

I love the below proverb

“The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.” – Chinese Proverb

Today is the day to take that one small step in the right direction . Start there . Then Repeat.

The key to achieving our goals lies in the small steps we make each day.In life a long journey to a far of place  starts with a one small step forward . Great things starts with one small step. No progress if you don’t step forward . All successful person are successful today because they have taken that one first step forward some day in their lives . Keep moving everyday no matter how big or small the steps are .. just keep stepping … Small steps each day will lead you to bigger goals and dreams . Each and every big things have only very small beginnings .

“Take small steps everyday and one day you’ll get there”  – Unknown.

Remember , A big empire is not built in a day , It’s built everyday .

What are you waiting for guys ! Are you ready to take that small step today !?

…take it today and every day….  🙂

Wishing you all a very productive day !

Devi Venkatesan

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The Importance of Self-Love

Self Love – Love Yourself

 Self-love is essential to our happiness, relationships and dreams, but it can be hard to know HOW to love yourself. I’ve put together a list of Lessons below to help you get started. 

If you are not going to cheer ‘you,’ who will? If you don’t love you, who will? Ask yourself these questions. 

 “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
– Lucille Ball

 Lesson 1:

Mirror Mirror on the wall:

Start each day by telling yourself something really positive. What you tell yourself is who you are. People’s opinions of you do not matter. What is important is what you tell that person in the mirror each day, that ‘I am beautiful’, ’I am Intelligent’, Anything that will make you smile .Every great thing we celebrate started with a thought. What you focus on focuses on you.

 Lesson 2 :

Self-Examine:

Do some self-examination. Evaluate where you are in your life at the moment. Think of the mistakes you’ve made, experiences you’ve gone through. Remember the lessons learned from your mistakes and experiences.

 Lesson 3 :

Treat yourself well:

Treating your body well not only boost your self-love, but also your energy… Learn to love the skin you’re in. Be intentional about what you put into your body, not only because you want to look good but because you want to feel good.

 Lesson 4  :

Be Calm and Relax :

Take time out to calm your mind everyday . Self-love is all about connecting with yourself.Being calm and relax allows you to connect with yourself by not thinking about what bills need be paid,what’s due at work  etc. Release your negative emotional energy and re-establish inner calm and peace .Just embrace the moment.

 Lesson 5 :

Self-Compassion is important:

Be good to you.. Be kind to you. Self Kindness leads to a healthy and happier life. Being Kind to you helps you to bounce back and to live a happier life

 Lesson 6 :

 Create a fantastic Community:

Surround yourself with people who love and encourage you. Let them remind you just how amazing you are.

 Lesson 7 :

Unplug from social media:

Sit down for a few minutes on your own. No TV or distractions, just you. Think about the wonderful things that are happening in your life right now, what your big dreams are and how you can make that happen.

 Lesson 8 :

Make a ‘What’s working for you list’:

Make a list of what’s really working for you. Write it down in a paper and once you see it on paper and accept all of the positivity in your life, it will make it easier to love yourself. Go through it again and again when you feel down. Your blessings and positivity gives a fresh energy when you feel depressed.

 Lesson 9 :

Practice Self care:

Spend time for Self-pampering. Keep doing what makes you happy. It can be a facial, body massage, applying moisturizer, cooking, gardening, playing with kids, adventures, fun games, watching a movie and so on…Get enough sleep, do yoga, have good food and drink plenty of water.

 Lesson 10 :

Be thankful:

Be thankful for all your blessings and positivity in life. Embrace and love the thing that makes you different. It brings peace to your mind and soul. I Stop taking my mind and body for granted and relish how blessed I am .

 Lesson 11 :

Clean out your closet:

Getting rid of old things will make room for new things to come in to your life! Cleansing your mind can sometimes work in the form of letting go of clothes, shoes, jewelry, etc. that remind you of a certain time in your life that links to a negative vibration. Don’t chase what’s already happened; love yourself enough to know the best is yet to come.

 Lesson 12 :

No more Comparisons:

They is no one on the planet like you .Remember that you are perfect just the way you are; being in a pattern of compare and despair only makes you focus on the negative, when there’s SO much to be grateful for. The only person you should compare yourself to  is you.

 Lesson 13:

Self- Improvement:

You’ve got your own skills and talents. Remember that you’re unique, you have special unique talents within you which no one has. Embrace and love the things that make you different. You’re blessed differently. Learn to respect your uniqueness and find ways to improve your skills and talents. Try to improve yourself everyday. Be better than yesterday.

 Lesson 14:

Celebrate every day:

Celebrate your wins no matter how big or small. Pat yourself on the back and be proud of what you have achieved.

 Lesson 15 :

End all toxic relationship:

Seriously, Anyone who makes you feel anything less than amazing doesn’t deserve to be a part of your life.

 Lesson 16 :

Learn to Letgo:

We’re constantly holding on to things in our past, and it can tend to weigh heavy on our souls and even give us low self-esteem. The more blocks we clear, the more we can really live big in the area of self-love. Although we may do this as a way to protect ourselves from hurting, it’s really only holding us back from moving forward to reaching optimal self-acceptance and loving who we are.

 Lesson 17 :

Be your best version:

Often do something you are good at. Feel this is a self-esteem booster, Yes, no doubt .. This is! Get creative and express yourself in whatever way you like. Participate in a hobby or whatever you’re good at It can  be a craft,painting,music you do or love to cook then cook It’ll bring the best in you .Self-love and self-esteem go hand in hand.

 Lesson 18 :

Accept your flaws and celebrate your strengths:

Self-love does not mean dismissing your mistakes, no, it’s acknowledging them and making a deliberate choice to love you with all your flaws, insecurities, mistakes and choosing each day to do better, be better and ultimately live each day being you, doing you, fulfilling your purpose- what you were called to do on earth and ignoring the background noise. Stay focused, there are so many distractions in today’s world, don’t let it deter you from your goals and the amazing future that lies ahead of you.

If you love this post, be sure to leave a comment. What are your favorite self-care tips? I would love to know your thoughts. Make sure you follow on Facebook,Twitter and Instagram for motivational quotes, Personal development posts, life hacks and everything you need to be a better ‘you’ each day.

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I Can Always Rise Up !

We can’t always stop the storms from coming, but we can choose to shine after they’re over. Rise above the storm you’ll find the Sunshine.

So many of us have been hurt, heartbroken, abandoned, bullied, overlooked, disappointed, used, abused, etc., Try to heal from the past pain and learn to turn our pain into power.I salute women who choose to rise above from her worst circumstances .

 

Learn to turn your Problems in to Solutions

Turn your Struggles into Strength

Turn your Pains into Power

Turn your bad days in to blessings

Shine On !! Stay Awesome ladies !

Devi Venkatesan

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New Beginning – Trust the magic of new beginning

New Beginning..New Dreams..New Goals..New Life

My Blogging Journey has just begun

 I have got a new story to write and it looks nothing like my past.

Starting over is a hallmark of the human experience. Life is a great journey filled with many experiences. We all know life is not a bed of roses so we will not always get positive experiences. Life is a mix of good and bad times and you need to learn from the situations. Ending are not as bad as we consider them to be. They just introduce a new chapter in your life. Looking back will only bring harsh memories. However new beginnings carry a bright future and a great time  ahead for you .

I love this quote from Helen Rowland “ You’ll never win if you never begin”

 

What feels like the end is often the beginning..Begin again..

Yes, begin again

 

As Lao Tuz said ”A Journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step”

Start where you are..Don’t hesitate, Just start..It’s not too late for a new beginning

Life gives everyone a new chance to start; as long as you’re breathing it’s not too late to start new things.

It’s a New Start..New Challenges..New hopes..New believes

Don’t be afraid to start again, It’s a chance to build something better this time.

 

Remember Every end is a new beginning.

I am going to write a brand new story of my life and make it a happy and successful one.

Have a happy and bright future !

Devi Venkatesan

#DeviVenkatesan #mybloginspires

 

 

 

 

 

Live in the moment

Hi Mommies, Are you waiting for the weekend ?

Don’t wait for the weekend

Be happy today and everyday.

It all started when we are young,sitting in the class room thinking of weekend fun.

As we get older,our lives and week days become more stressful in office/business.

Stop worrying about past or future. (Don’t worry about  past mistakes or things which went wrong and don’t worry about future challenges )

New research says that people are actually less happy on weekends.

Be happy today..There should be something good today and take a moment to be grateful for it today.Find it and focus on it.

Don’t wait for the weekends to be happy .Find reason to be happy today and every day.

Enjoy little things.. Appreciate small things!

Live in the moment. Enjoy !!

Devi Venkatesan

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How to Stay Positive in Negative situations ? Positive vs Negative .

We are all born good/Positive .. Situations make us Negative..

Are you wondering how a person can be Positive in Negative situations?

A lot of people ask how to stay positive, well, staying positive isn’t always as difficult as you think. You just need to discover happiness in the smaller things in life.

First , let’s look at the definition of “positive”. Well, in its simplest format, it’s being constructive, optimistic or confident whereas negative is being unpleasant, disagreeable and gloomy.

As Helen Keller said,”Keep your face to the Sunshine ,and you cannot see a shadow”.

Learning to stay positive in life is invaluable. Here are few tips to help you stay positive in negative situations:

 

Lesson 1: Don’t be afraid to face negativity .We all have to face it at one point of time in our lives.

Lesson 2: Control or delay your response because we get angry ,frustrated ,annoyed and immediately react based on our emotions. This will create more problem .

Lesson 3: Ignore negative people or situations. No one can hurt you with out your permission or concern Just by ignoring and not responding it  loses its power.

Lesson 4: You’re responsible for your inner peace and happiness . Don’t give the keys of your happiness to someone else.

Lesson 5: Attitude is everything . You are in charge of how you respond to what happens to you.A positive attitude can completely change our life.

Lesson 6: Learn to develop and improve your talents/skills/yourself.

Lesson 7: Exercise your mind and body .Train your mind positively.

Lesson 8: Do things frequently which makes you happy and positive, like Listening to music, eat your favorite food, Spend time with family or friends, Surround yourself with positively inspired group,Yoga,Meditation ,Cultivate learning habits,Read good books, Go for a long drive/walk/swimming, Spend more time with kids/pets, focus on hobbies, Gardening .. etc.

Lesson 9: Take a deep breath and remember what is going right in the moment.

Lesson 10 : Think positively and try not to take negative situations personally .Mind your thoughts because you’re made of it. Thoughts are powerful .

Lesson 11:Learn from disappointments. Learn from your mistakes..Forget your mistake but remember what it taught you.Yes,It’s important Remember the lesson.

Lesson 12: Remember you’re a Warrior and not Worrier .

Lesson 13 : The grass isn’t greener somewhere else it’s greener where you water it.

Lesson 14: Accept the situation or person and move on.If you don’t  keep the grudge and life just gets a whole lot more negative with grudges.

Lesson 15 : Be grateful for what you have.Just count your blessings..What you seek will seek you.You’re a magnet You attract what you focus.Focus on positive.Positive things will come to you

Lesson 16: Your present situation is not your final destination. Everything happens for a reason . Don’t let circumstances control and defeat you, use them to push you into action and change your present situation. 

Have a Happy and Positive Life !!

Stay Happy and Positive always !!

Devi Venkatesan

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LIVE IN THE MOMENT #Inspire #Table Decor

Weekend Table Decor

 

I love all things creative and colorful. Today I will share a weekend table décor

 

Buddha,Flower and lamp in yellow ..

We all know Yellow stands for Sunshine,Happiness, Positivity , Freshness..

 

This picture reminders me of Buddhas quotes , “Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.”

 

Yes,LIVE IN THE MOMENT 

 

Don’t worry about the past ; It’s gone and never come back

Don’t think too much about the future .. 

No amount of anxiety can change the future

No amount of regret can change the past

 

Just Live the Moment 

Enjoy Life

 

Devi Venkatesan

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Dream Big

 

Dream Bigger

No dreamer is ever too small. No dream is ever too big.  It’s never too late..Start dreaming .

If it doesn’t challenge you it wont change you.

If you want to soar with the Eagles, If you want to live a life that you have always dreamed of, then you CANNOT get comfortable. I repeat you must NEVER get Comfortable.
It will stunt your growth and crush your dreams.
Instead choose to grow everyday, read something,  take action, show up each day in life and in your business.
Your Dreams are waiting .

Come out of your comfort zone . I try to do things that scare me every week, I will not live with regret. 

Devi Venkatesan

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