Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You .

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Hi Good Morning/Evening Everyone !

Happy Friday ! Today’s Quote

Don’t be a shadow or an illusion.Be Real..Be You . – Devi Venkatesan

When you FOCUS on you and INVEST in you, there is no competition because no one else has your story and your journey…

Have a wonderful day !

Devi Venkatesan

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5 Hater quotes to Motivate you

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Hi Everyone ! Good Morning / Evening

Here’s five quotes about hates which will motivate you to move forward .Haters don’t really hate, they hate themselves because you are a reflection of what they wish to be.

Not everyone likes me .. but not everyone matters .

“Haters are my favorite. I’ve built an empire with the bricks they’ve thrown at me. Keep on hating.”– C.M. Punk

“You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”– Shannon L. Alder

“Some people have so little going on in their lives, they would rather discuss yours.”– Unknown

“Wish all your enemies a long life, so they can see you succeed in life.”– Nishan Panwar

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Devi Venkatesan

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Look for good in everything

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Good Morning/Evening everyone ! Today’s Quote ..

“Train your mind and heart to see the good in everything. There is always something to be grateful for.” 
— Unknown Author

Finding the positive qualities in other people is an important part of your personal development. As you get better at finding the positive aspects of other people, you become more proficient at finding the positive aspects of yourself. 

I’ve  learnt to remind myself that I don’t know the other persons full story. I recently came across the saying “Don’t judge my story based on the chapter you happened to walk in on.” Even when you know someone well, you can’t assume to know what’s going on in their head or heart or life – at any given point in time.

I also find that if I am bothered by someone’s behavior, realizing that it’s probably not directed at me, but rather an expression of how they’re feeling at that point of time, helps me to see the situation from a more objective standpoint.

Seeing the good in other people is a challenging pursuit.Basic social skills like smiling and maintaining eye contact will help.Start noticing only positive intentions underlying peoples’ actions and forgive them for these actions.

When you look for the beauty in every person and situation, life becomes so much better. When you can see the good in everything, you will be genuinely happy and enjoy life so much more

How do you look for good in others ? Let’s get the conversation going in the comment section.

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Devi Venkatesan

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Fail Forward !

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Today’s Life lesson

Hi friends, Good Morning !

Do you know what is mean by fail forward ? Failure ?

Failure is stepping stone to success.Failure is not the opposite of success It’s a part of success .

Quote : ” Even if you are on the right track You’ll get run over if you just sit there” – Unknown

Standing still has never helped anyone get anywhere. Keep failing forward!

Failure is a necessary part of progress! Fail forward and never give up! It’s all part of the learning process! It’s better to try and fall than to never try at all.It’s not how we fall It’s how we get back up.If you’re not failing, you’re not growing!!

You can’t let your failure define you .. You have to let your failure teach you.Yes Learn from your mistakes and move forward .No one said building an empire was easy, so go out there and take risks. If you fail, accept it, learn from it, and move forward. At least you are trying ! Before you start beating yourself up, remember. Life is a series of lessons learned only through a series of mistakes. Our biggest missteps often lead us directly to our most powerful breakthroughs. You’re doing awesome guys ! Lets wind up with Pitbull and Michael Jordan’s words today :

Wise words from Pit bull. . .
No overnight success, just years and years of doing, learning and failing. .

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Devi Venkatesan

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Quote : Be A Tree

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Happy Morning friends 

The tree does not bother about flowers that fall.It is always busy making new flowers blossom.Life is not about what we lost so far,its about what we can still grow.

Learn from trees .

Never look back your past .

Keep going ! Keep moving forward !

Have a Wonderful Tuesday friends !

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Happy Monday !

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Happy Monday everyone !

Here’s some Monday Motivation..

Mondays are new beginning , new week , new goals , new hopes , new opportunities …

Lets welcome Mondays with great enthusiasm , positivity and good energy .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Be happy and thankful for Mondays , that you are alive one more day and got the opportunity to prove your best . Who know, this day may make you proud !

Consider it as another opportunity to begin a new journey of success .

Mondays gives us chance to start fresh and correct last week’s mistakes .

Remember , You are going to do amazing things this week .

Throw some glitter in today’s face . Choose to sparkle today !

Don’t forget to Sparkle More and Shine Bright today and everyday .

Wishing you all a very happy and productive new week !

All the very best !

Devi Venkatesan

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10 Ways to be more Likeable

 

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10 Ways to be more Likeable

We all want to be liked by others, but few of us actually know how to be more likeable. Making yourself more appealing to others is a important social skill and it requires a good understanding of some key principles of human psychology to master.

1. Smile more… that’s not so hard now is it? Smiling is contagious. The more you smile the more your mood will be elevated. It will reduce your blood pressure and it’s actually considered to be a form of exercise. Just be happy and let that happiness transfer to others. Nobody likes a party pooper!

2. Use Positive body language.Positive body language can make all the difference in a conversation.Use an enthusiastic tone, maintain eye contact etc.

3. Give genuine compliments. Make people feel good and compliment them because you truly do have something nice to say. Not because it’s part of a script or messaging formula. Elaborate on the compliment if you can.

4. Know when to open – up. Be careful to avoid sharing personal problems and confessions too quickly, as this will get you labeled a complainer. Likeable people let the other person guide when it’s the right time for them to open up.

5. Remember peoples names. Yes, many say they are horrible at this, but that’s only because you allow yourself to be. Say someone’s name three times or over and over again in your head. Find a way to remember the name by relating it to someone or something that is familiar to you. 
Don’t be lazy and let your excuses kick in.

6. Have Integrity . Being genuine and honest is essential to being likeable. No one likes a fake person. 

7. First impression do matter so don’t blow it. People decide if they like you within a matter of seconds of meeting you. So be open, smile, show confidence, good body language, be friendly… it’s simple stuff. Don’t be a jerk and show some interest in the person you are meeting. You’ll be fine.

8. Shared Interests . When it comes to establishing a rapport with someone, look for ways to establish common ground through shared hobbies or interests. This is when having a variety of interests and a diverse background will come in handy.

9. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves so the more interested you are the more interested they are in talking to you. Ask real questions that help you get to know the person. Listen to listen. Don’t be thinking of the next question while they are talking, this isn’t an interview.

10. Put your hands up and step away from your phone! This is the biggest challenge for most people. When you are with your family, friends, meeting up with someone, face to face interacting with people your phone is a major distraction. It’s a great way to meet people when you are not around people. Put it away before you get the stink eye from someone.

If you want to show someone how uninterested you are in them, being on your phone will do the trick. There is a time and place for the phone, but when you’re around people you are looking to connect with, that is the wrong time. Practice being present!

Lets sum up. Likeable people are invaluable and unique. They network with ease, promote harmony in the workplace, bring out the best in everyone around them, and generally seem to have the most fun. 

Devi Venkatesan

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I Can Always Rise Up !

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We can’t always stop the storms from coming, but we can choose to shine after they’re over. Rise above the storm you’ll find the Sunshine.

So many of us have been hurt, heartbroken, abandoned, bullied, overlooked, disappointed, used, abused, etc., Try to heal from the past pain and learn to turn our pain into power.I salute women who choose to rise above from her worst circumstances .

 

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Learn to turn your Problems in to Solutions

Turn your Struggles into Strength

Turn your Pains into Power

Turn your bad days in to blessings

Shine On !! Stay Awesome ladies !

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Devi Venkatesan

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New Beginning – Trust the magic of new beginning

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New Beginning..New Dreams..New Goals..New Life

My Blogging Journey has just begun

 I have got a new story to write and it looks nothing like my past.

Starting over is a hallmark of the human experience. Life is a great journey filled with many experiences. We all know life is not a bed of roses so we will not always get positive experiences. Life is a mix of good and bad times and you need to learn from the situations. Ending are not as bad as we consider them to be. They just introduce a new chapter in your life. Looking back will only bring harsh memories. However new beginnings carry a bright future and a great time  ahead for you .

I love this quote from Helen Rowland “ You’ll never win if you never begin”

 

What feels like the end is often the beginning..Begin again..

Yes, begin again

 

As Lao Tuz said ”A Journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step”

Start where you are..Don’t hesitate, Just start..It’s not too late for a new beginning

Life gives everyone a new chance to start; as long as you’re breathing it’s not too late to start new things.

It’s a New Start..New Challenges..New hopes..New believes

Don’t be afraid to start again, It’s a chance to build something better this time.

 

Remember Every end is a new beginning.

I am going to write a brand new story of my life and make it a happy and successful one.

Have a happy and bright future !

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Devi Venkatesan

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How to Stay Positive in Negative situations ? Positive vs Negative .

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We are all born good/Positive .. Situations make us Negative..

Are you wondering how a person can be Positive in Negative situations?

A lot of people ask how to stay positive, well, staying positive isn’t always as difficult as you think. You just need to discover happiness in the smaller things in life.

First , let’s look at the definition of “positive”. Well, in its simplest format, it’s being constructive, optimistic or confident whereas negative is being unpleasant, disagreeable and gloomy.

As Helen Keller said,”Keep your face to the Sunshine ,and you cannot see a shadow”.

Learning to stay positive in life is invaluable. Here are few tips to help you stay positive in negative situations:

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Lesson 1: Don’t be afraid to face negativity .We all have to face it at one point of time in our lives.

Lesson 2: Control or delay your response because we get angry ,frustrated ,annoyed and immediately react based on our emotions. This will create more problem .

Lesson 3: Ignore negative people or situations. No one can hurt you with out your permission or concern Just by ignoring and not responding it  loses its power.

Lesson 4: You’re responsible for your inner peace and happiness . Don’t give the keys of your happiness to someone else.

Lesson 5: Attitude is everything . You are in charge of how you respond to what happens to you.A positive attitude can completely change our life.

Lesson 6: Learn to develop and improve your talents/skills/yourself.

Lesson 7: Exercise your mind and body .Train your mind positively.

Lesson 8: Do things frequently which makes you happy and positive, like Listening to music, eat your favorite food, Spend time with family or friends, Surround yourself with positively inspired group,Yoga,Meditation ,Cultivate learning habits,Read good books, Go for a long drive/walk/swimming, Spend more time with kids/pets, focus on hobbies, Gardening .. etc.

Lesson 9: Take a deep breath and remember what is going right in the moment.

Lesson 10 : Think positively and try not to take negative situations personally .Mind your thoughts because you’re made of it. Thoughts are powerful .

Lesson 11:Learn from disappointments. Learn from your mistakes..Forget your mistake but remember what it taught you.Yes,It’s important Remember the lesson.

Lesson 12: Remember you’re a Warrior and not Worrier .

Lesson 13 : The grass isn’t greener somewhere else it’s greener where you water it.

Lesson 14: Accept the situation or person and move on.If you don’t  keep the grudge and life just gets a whole lot more negative with grudges.

Lesson 15 : Be grateful for what you have.Just count your blessings..What you seek will seek you.You’re a magnet You attract what you focus.Focus on positive.Positive things will come to you

Lesson 16: Your present situation is not your final destination. Everything happens for a reason . Don’t let circumstances control and defeat you, use them to push you into action and change your present situation. 

Have a Happy and Positive Life !!

Stay Happy and Positive always !!

Devi Venkatesan

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Life Lesson / Quotes

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Have you ever noticed how good things constantly happen to positive people?
If you surround yourself with positive people, inspiring people, you will notice how much better your life becomes.
How would you like your life to be?
Choose wisely who you are going to be surrounded by.

 

Devi Venkatesan

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