We are all born good/Positive .. Situations make us Negative..
Are you wondering how a person can be Positive in Negative situations?
A lot of people ask how to stay positive, well, staying positive isn’t always as difficult as you think. You just need to discover happiness in the smaller things in life.
First , let’s look at the definition of “positive”. Well, in its simplest format, it’s being constructive, optimistic or confident whereas negative is being unpleasant, disagreeable and gloomy.
As Helen Keller said,”Keep your face to the Sunshine ,and you cannot see a shadow”.
Learning to stay positive in life is invaluable. Here are few tips to help you stay positive in negative situations:
Lesson 1: Don’t be afraid to face negativity .We all have to face it at one point of time in our lives.
Lesson 2: Control or delay your response because we get angry ,frustrated ,annoyed and immediately react based on our emotions. This will create more problem .
Lesson 3: Ignore negative people or situations. No one can hurt you with out your permission or concern Just by ignoring and not responding it loses its power.
Lesson 4: You’re responsible for your inner peace and happiness . Don’t give the keys of your happiness to someone else.
Lesson 5: Attitude is everything . You are in charge of how you respond to what happens to you.A positive attitude can completely change our life.
Lesson 6: Learn to develop and improve your talents/skills/yourself.
Lesson 7: Exercise your mind and body .Train your mind positively.
Lesson 8: Do things frequently which makes you happy and positive, like Listening to music, eat your favorite food, Spend time with family or friends, Surround yourself with positively inspired group,Yoga,Meditation ,Cultivate learning habits,Read good books, Go for a long drive/walk/swimming, Spend more time with kids/pets, focus on hobbies, Gardening .. etc.
Lesson 9: Take a deep breath and remember what is going right in the moment.
Lesson 10 : Think positively and try not to take negative situations personally .Mind your thoughts because you’re made of it. Thoughts are powerful .
Lesson 11:Learn from disappointments. Learn from your mistakes..Forget your mistake but remember what it taught you.Yes,It’s important Remember the lesson.
Lesson 12: Remember you’re a Warrior and not Worrier .
Lesson 13 : The grass isn’t greener somewhere else it’s greener where you water it.
Lesson 14: Accept the situation or person and move on.If you don’t keep the grudge and life just gets a whole lot more negative with grudges.
Lesson 15 : Be grateful for what you have.Just count your blessings..What you seek will seek you.You’re a magnet You attract what you focus.Focus on positive.Positive things will come to you
Lesson 16: Your present situation is not your final destination. Everything happens for a reason . Don’t let circumstances control and defeat you, use them to push you into action and change your present situation.
Have a Happy and Positive Life !!
Stay Happy and Positive always !!
Devi Venkatesan
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Devi Venkatesan 